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facebook gone bad... what to do when facebook friends attack
I found an interesting fact in Time magazine: Having yourself circumcised lowers your risk of contracting AIDS by 60%. I thought that was interesting, so I posted it on my facebook page. I like to share. Well, this sparked a debate about whether or not we should regularly circumcise baby boys, then lead to the treacherous territory of whether people should breast feed or not. It turns out I have 2 facebook friends on opposite ends of both debates. My friendly, harmless, interesting fact turned into an all-out facebook war, with how we define motherhood was at the center of that war. I really didn't mean to start a fight, but I certainly didn't do anything to stop it, either. But when the dust settled, I sent them a thank you and told them they were the most fabulouslly interesting people I know. Their argument was fascinating. It made me realize that my friends don't debate anymore. The only debates I see are on the blogs, and ones I've read tend to spiral down into "no, you're stupid; no YOU are" arguments. I'm glad I touched on a sore subject, even if my facebook friends aren't. It was stimulating to think about issues that are important to how we live our lives. So, my advice: when facebook friends attack, add more fuel to the fire... and enjoy the debate that follows! I'm now looking for an interesting quote about breast-feeding or parenting, although I might just post a quote from the article I recently read that discusses the fact that abortion lowers the crime rate. That should do the trick! 16 comments from 13 users
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posted by
djembe
on Oct 7, 2009 at 09:46 PM
It's true that abortion does lower the crime rate. It's also true that circumcised males are less likely to contract or spread STDs. posted by
FunInBako
on Oct 7, 2009 at 10:08 PM
posted by
elinem
on Oct 8, 2009 at 05:21 AM
FunInBako: Your observation confirms much of what I've seen in Facebook and especially the Californian blogs. Nobody really wants to discuss anymore. It's easier to hurl insults. I guess I've done my share of that, but I may have to reassess. It seems a waste of time.
posted by
Lingtaowoo
on Oct 8, 2009 at 07:01 AM
posted by
NancyII
on Oct 8, 2009 at 07:15 AM
Nahhhh..what fun is it to be nicey nice? You see how many comments get posted on nice blogs don't you? Even when they do get a few comments, they die out on one page. You know your blog is a hit when it runs 3 pages, gets totally off topic, and starts a flame war. posted by
Lingtaowoo
on Oct 8, 2009 at 07:41 AM
My facebook friends are nice and polite---nobody is biting on anyones butt over there---kinda like if you don't have anything nice to say--then don't say it.... I think that it's a refreshing change from the ol' some-o..same-o....... posted by
lanabuford
on Oct 8, 2009 at 08:24 AM
I agree ling....Every now and then a good battle between strangers keeps your blood flowing.......But for someone to get a thrill from watching their friends fight is wrong on so many levels!... posted by
siouxcityranch
on Oct 8, 2009 at 08:34 AM
If you really want to keep a friend you dont bring up certain subjects. theres too big a chance one or the other will say something that has a negative impact on that friendship..of course if you dont really care....FLAME ON! and may the Force be with you. posted by
CatherineBaker
on Oct 8, 2009 at 09:27 AM
Yeah, I would hate it if two of my Facebook friends got in a fight over one of my status updates or posts. I have seen it happen to other friends, though, and have gotten irritated over peoples' comments, but I always try to be cool. Arguing with your friend's other Facebook friends seems no different from going to a friend's party and arguing with another guest in front of everyone. Then again, I never post anything controversial--just Youtube songs and goofy personality tests and stuff. Anyway, I'm too obsessed with Farmville and Happy Aquarium and Hatchlings to comment on too many posts nowadays. ; ) posted by
NancyII
on Oct 8, 2009 at 09:46 AM
I keep getting friend requests from people and family on facebook. I can barely remember my password let alone use the thing. I just accept and forget to go back. No blog, no chatter, and have no idea what you guys are talking about. The only one I check in on besides TBC is this one..and it's pretty boring most of the time..but always chummy. http://chatboards.ebay.com/... I have a myspace too but no clue what the password is.
posted by
lanabuford
on Oct 8, 2009 at 10:42 AM
Just click on remember me....Since I can't it helps..LOL! Like catherine I'm hooked on farmville, the fish game and Yoville....I love facebook...Its so peaceful. posted by
bakoblue
on Oct 8, 2009 at 11:55 AM
I love my Facebook friends. It's like dropping in at a coffee shop. You're not quite sure who will be there or what they'll have to say, but you know the vibe will always be cool. Especially if I've had a bad or stressful day I know I can go there and see something that will make me smile. The hatchlings don't hurt, either. posted by
mamayuck
on Oct 8, 2009 at 04:39 PM
posted by
vanityfair
on Oct 8, 2009 at 10:34 PM
Tanya, what did you hope to gain by this post? You ask what to do when friends attack, but then offer So, my advice: when facebook friends attack, add more fuel to the fire... and enjoy the debate that follows! I'm now looking for an interesting quote about breast-feeding or parenting, although I might just post a quote from the article I recently read that discusses the fact that abortion lowers the crime rate. That should do the trick! What exactly is "the trick"? And you teach high school, right? Public? posted by
TLCTugger
on Oct 9, 2009 at 10:31 PM
The problem started when first TIME and then you completely misinterpretted the Africa research. posted by
Shwaine
on Oct 10, 2009 at 12:55 AM
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