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Love for me has always felt like never never land. It's something that I've never had growing up, not true, unconditional love. I love watching Nanny 911, I believe that entire show is about loving our families. I love watching the transition, from both the parents and the kids. There's a lot of families who desperately need help, and I think its wonderful that an outsider comes in, takes a look around and tells them what needs to change to make everyone happier. I see God in these Nannies. They observe, tell the truth, tell what changes need to be made, give them the tools they need and help them along the way to make peace at home. The nannies don't retract what they tell the parents when they get upset. They don't sugar coat it. I think we could all use a nanny in our lives. I know I do. It's a commandment of Christians to love our enemies, to bless them and to pray for them. To do good to them, to outpour so much love for them and to never do harm for them. I certainly do NOT do that. I blame, I make excuses, I say "But God, dont You know when I tried to love them? Look at all the damage they caused me!! I don't want to love them!" Of course I don't! Loving our enemies goes against everything we know in this society. Blow em up! Tease them! Put them down! Kill em all!! Before I became a christian I was a fan of Kill Bill. The ULTIMATE revenge movie. Lots and lots of deaths. Over what? Yes she had every reason to be angry. But to kill as many people she did? Now I see how pointless it is. Yeah she got what she wanted in the end, but at so many peoples expense! Last night I was at a place where my "enemies" are. One of them was kind to me. It was weird. Very weird, it touched me deeply. I'm not a crier, but it made me cry. It surely would be nice if earth was like heaven, where everyone lives at peace, there's no fighting, strife or suffering. That would really be nice. But that's not the case. That's never been the case. But as I continue to learn, I see how much we learn from our enemies. God doesn't want me to love my enemies because it causes me pain and suffering.. quite the opposite. We receieve love from God when we do. I know the tears I cried yesterday were healing tears. Because deep inside, I know I don't want to be hated and persecued by my enemies, I want love from them. And to get love, I must give it first... (and as i type this I know I'll read this later and probably get mad about it!!!!) 16 comments from 10 users
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posted by
Wayfarer
on Aug 29, 2008 at 10:56 AM
posted by
randomfactor
on Aug 29, 2008 at 11:11 AM
posted by
Wolverines1
on Aug 29, 2008 at 11:13 AM
posted by
johnburnssucks
on Aug 29, 2008 at 11:19 AM
posted by
catpaw
on Aug 29, 2008 at 11:20 AM
The closest unconditional love I have experienced is the love and devotion of the pets I've rescued. They ask for so little in return. They don't care about your past sins, your lifestyle, your mental health, how much money you got in the bank.....Is it any wonder pets modify the behavior of violent criminals in prison, or lift the spirits of infirm patients in hospitals? Nothing teaches acceptance and love without expectation or judgement like an animal. ....except for bloggers on this site. They all seem to want to kill squirrels. posted by
Wayfarer
on Aug 29, 2008 at 01:36 PM
A Holy Father once said that a dog is far worthier than he. Because the dog had unconditional love and sins not. But it is easy for some to isolate themselves from there brethren with animals. It is through loving are fellow humans that we find salvation. They provide the grist for the mill to grind off our rough edges. Besides the Bible says "How can you love God whom you have not seen. If you don't love your brother whom you have." posted by
woofwoof
on Aug 29, 2008 at 01:44 PM
posted by
Wolverines1
on Aug 29, 2008 at 02:16 PM
posted by
dcs217
on Aug 29, 2008 at 10:44 PM
freethinker -- What a great post. So true. And so I read all your posts - and they are ALL so good. I won't miss them from now on. Folks would do well to pay attention, as to a light shining in a dark place. --- (Your the one that did the "friends" post that I just had to comment on, and then came back to blogging after I'd quit for a season. Thank you.) ( : posted by
sagefever
on Aug 30, 2008 at 05:43 AM
Catpaw~ let the squirrels go....signed a reformed squirrel killer. (lol) It's those times when I go beyond what's expected that I get the best "rewards",sometimes.Other times nothing readily apparent comes through,but I think of those times as "spiritual sit ups"~getting me somewhere.I am a firm believer that you create how you experience life~ it is the only thing you can control. Sometimes those "enemies" deserve a metaphorical slap up side their heads~other times it's me that deserves it. Good luck on your journey. posted by
anglo1
on Aug 30, 2008 at 06:00 AM
I have had people do me and mine wrong and I held in a lot of hate for them. It didn't hurt them at all, they didn't even know. It was eating me from the inside out. I finally forgave them, not face to face but in my mind and it actually helped. I think if you can forgive them in your own mind you may find some sort of healing. Sage, that is a great way of putting what I've always felt about personal happiness, it's mine to create. Don't rely on someone else to make you happy. Shouldn't you guys be asleep? {HAY DA } posted by
catpaw
on Aug 30, 2008 at 06:29 AM
With me, I am usually an early riser. The tv news is on low (incase there really is any news) and it's quiet. Cup of coffee, catch up on bloggers gossip, humor, etc. Best time of the day. posted by
sagefever
on Aug 30, 2008 at 06:35 AM
>>>Yes but lately i have been waking up about 3a.m.....can stop thinking about sad things so i come here so someone will make me mad...lol ,I think it's the b-day,and I just miss my boys...so fighting about politics makes that stop.It's either that or killing squirrels...;-) posted by
anglo1
on Aug 30, 2008 at 06:49 AM
B-days have to be hard. Can't even imagine your loss. I do remember the photo of your son with the great smile at what appeared to be a fun time. I don't think killings squirrels would do it for me anymore either. posted by
sagefever
on Aug 30, 2008 at 06:51 AM
posted by
thegrumpyskeptic
on Oct 21, 2008 at 08:13 PM
Very heartfelt post, personally I think that religion, among many other factors, that put us at odds with others (IE Races,Nationalities,Clicks,Etc,Etc.) are what drive us to hate, and of of course being personaly hurt by others. We are just human, by no means am I saying that if we all where atheist, we would rid our selves of the terrible scurge of war, but I think loving people for who they are, would be a little easier. like your post by the way, hope your pain is lifted (coming from someone who has had great pain, and anger) see ya~!
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