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What to do with the wedding ring?
Something like half of all U.S. marriages end in divorce, leaving millions of engagement bands and wedding rings languishing forlornly in bedside tables across the nation. But now the price of gold is so high that those who once were lovers have more reason than ever before to make some money from their misery. Some opt to melt the gold down and make another piece of jewelry, or give it to a family member whose hate or sadness may not equal their own. Some simply toss the ring away, hoping the memories are as easily forgotten. Of course, not all divorces are cause for sorrow and in those cases where two people amicably agree that life would be better without the other, the ring obviously isn't a symbol of discontent. I suppose this is a wordy way of asking, but what would you do with the rings if your marriage went pear-shaped? — Andrew Mockett 11 comments from 10 users
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posted by
timec
on Apr 24, 2008 at 11:16 AM
I would sell my ring. I would not want any kind of memories. I would not want to pass it on because I would feel it was cursed. Wedding rings should not be returned to the man. If you put up with his b/s for years you deserve the ring and a whole lot more..... posted by
michele1075
on Apr 24, 2008 at 11:19 AM
Wedding rings should not be returned to either the wife or husband. It was a gift purchased for the significant other. If they part ways-do what you will/want with the ring. For me, I'd sell it! posted by
Tiffanilynn
on Apr 24, 2008 at 11:28 AM
to be honest i dont know what i would do in that situation, i havent been married, i have a promise ring an ex gave me and we were together for 2 years, and i still have it... could that be considered the same? It would have to depend also how the marriage ended, if it was on bad terms i could see selling it, giving it away, ect... but if you ended on good terns for other reasons, then why not keep if you like it? like i said ive never been married so i dont know what i would do... posted by
dgrealish
on Apr 24, 2008 at 11:35 AM
I have two beautiful wedding sets from my first marriage. I will leave them to my granddaughters. I was married to their grandfather for 25 years and I don't feel anything that came from that union is cursed. I have three wonderful children and eleven beautiful grandchildren. I've been Blessed! posted by
jbaldwin
on Apr 24, 2008 at 11:39 AM
While a few extra bucks do sound nice from selling my gold band, I think I'm going to keep it. I do cherish the sentimental value, although the marriage didn't last. There were lots of happy memories. Besides, the band only cost $50 in the first place. It's not like it's worth hundreds or thousands. If it was, I might would have to go for the cash! LOL posted by
pamg
on Apr 24, 2008 at 11:46 AM
My wedding band was beautiful....a wide band with a cluster of diamonds on top, and made even wider by the addition of two diamond-studded anniversary bands on either side. Sell it? No way! I had it made larger and wore it on the middle finger of my right hand, until it was stolen in a burglary, 3 years after the divorce. Got lots of compliments on it. posted by
ghostriter
on Apr 24, 2008 at 12:43 PM
I sold mine. It was really gorgeous, a custom piece, and the center diamond alone was stunning. A jeweler friend of mine had told me before that she wanted it if I decided to sell. Dam thing paid over 8 months worth of my rent. I might have kept it, but my ex really wanted it back. He even tried to get my daughter to steal it for him! I sure enjoyed the look on his face when I told him where it was. posted by
Tiffanilynn
on Apr 24, 2008 at 02:33 PM
people think trying to get rid of a ring is hard, what do they do when the tattoo each others names on their bodies? i never understood why people do that. posted by
sagefever
on Apr 24, 2008 at 02:43 PM
Sold mine,but my Mother took all the "things" Dad had bought her and had a cocktail ring made up~ 3 carats worth of diamonds,she never wore it because she was afraid of theft. The shame is she had this beautiful platinum and diamond watch she let the jeweler at...in one piece today it would be worth $$$$.Sometimes the intrinsic value of such is worth more than the amount one gets selling it piecemeal. posted by
msemilyh
on Apr 24, 2008 at 04:54 PM
i had the stones from my engagement and wedding rings made into earrings and a necklace pendant. since i took off the ring, i almost never wear rings anymore of any kind, but these other i wear all the time. they're my 'freedom' jewelry. still not sure what to do with that leftover gold band tho. i dont know a thing about selling gold or getting the best price for it. posted by
drilnliftcrude
on Apr 27, 2008 at 03:26 PM
I've done lost my wedding band and am still married! Told her I couldn't wear it to work, what with machinery and all. Not exactly sure how I'm going to handle this...
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