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In memory of Teri Lynn Kozy, 1/24/1958-9/14/2007
In memory of Teri Lynn Kozy,
When I first began to blog on TBC. I was unable to register with a GKOZY user name for some reason. I instead took the name TKOZY. It wasn't the only thing Teri and I laughed about. It wasn't the only thing Teri and I argued about. It is only one of a million memories that I will continue to have of her life, with me and our children. Teri made certain to tell our children they would never be alone. That GOD was always on their shoulder, always watching over them.
GOD was on Teri's shoulder. Watching over her, our children and all the rest of us. Teri is in a better place, with GOD today.
For those of you who are wondering. In situations such as mine. Time is never a friend. You either do not have enough of it. Or it seems as if it has stopped. In those times in which it seems I am helpless and unable to sleep or continue. This blog has always been a place to go. A place to pause and think.
I had mixed feelings about continuing on with the TKOZY user name. More than once after reading a blog. Teri would get angry and ask me to change my user name. But she continued to read them just the same.
It may sound silly or meaningless to many people. But while alone, I struggle with many thoughts.
Just as Teri would have expected of me. I am slowly taking care of the things in life that must go on.
It's not the first step I have taken since Teri's death. It's not the biggest step I have taken since her death.
But one of the decisions I had made was to explain the user name TKOZY.
It was a part of our life.
It is a process I had to go through.
Now that has been done.
I have also decided to continue to use the user name TKOZY, in a silent tribute to Teri.
I will be busy for some time. I will continue to post when I feel I need the release. . But may not have the time or spirit to reply for some time.
Teri Kozy died 14 Sept. 2007. Read TBC obit notices on 19 Sept 2007.
PEACE
18 comments from 13 users
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posted by
adampayne
on Sep 20, 2007 at 07:22 AM
Sorry to hear of your loss. I hope brighter days are on the way for you.
posted by
NancyII
on Sep 20, 2007 at 07:56 AM
Tk...I'm so sorry for the loss of this very important person in your life. May God ease your, and you childrens burden. After my Mother passed away my Dad handed me his Bible and had me read this passage. "Come to me all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart and ye shall find rest unto your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden light." KJV Matt 11:28-30 posted by
sagefever
on Sep 20, 2007 at 07:58 AM
I know this place you are in ,my friend, better than most here. You do what you need to do for yourself and your family. You do not need to explain yourself or your actions to anyone: Take care of you! Please reach out to others when you can. People are mostly helpful,and those that are not,can be ignored. Death scares most people, they say and do silly things. Take care.
posted by
ChicoEsquela
on Sep 20, 2007 at 08:01 AM
Isaiah 57 1 The righteous perish, 2 Those who walk uprightly posted by
NancyII
on Sep 20, 2007 at 08:09 AM
Unfortunately the obits we see on the online BC don't list all. Check your physical paper.
posted by
AudreyB
on Sep 20, 2007 at 08:11 AM
Tkozy There is no preparing for a loved one's death. I hope you can take comfort from the knowledge that she's released from the pain and worry that life brings to the ill. You have my deepest sympathies. posted by
woofwoof
on Sep 20, 2007 at 08:30 AM
peace. posted by
mattloch
on Sep 20, 2007 at 08:47 AM
I am sorry to hear about your loss. May you find peace soon.
posted by
TSM
on Sep 20, 2007 at 09:49 AM
Kozy, our thoughts and prayers are with you.
posted by
sfinboston52
on Sep 20, 2007 at 11:44 AM
Sorry for your loss, I just was in Bakersfield for the funeral of my sister in-law who passed away 2 weeks ago. My thoughts are w/ you and your family.
posted by
ScaryMary
on Sep 20, 2007 at 11:53 AM
We are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers. posted by
steveeswenson
on Sep 20, 2007 at 04:24 PM
TKozy, I am so sorry for your loss. Please grieve well and then live well. posted by
possummomma
on Sep 20, 2007 at 04:48 PM
Are obit notices only available in the paper? I looked at the 19th and 20th...I couldn't find it. Why doesn't the Californian make those available on the web?
posted by
bakonative
on Sep 20, 2007 at 05:26 PM
It's under the funeral section. Say your apologies now to Gary Kozy for doubting our fellow blogger. Funeral services for September 19| Tuesday, Sep 18 2007 7:50 PMLast Updated: Tuesday, Sep 18 2007 7:55 PM To our readers The Californian provides a free death listing (no services, services pending or services scheduled) using information supplied by mortuaries. The in-depth notices that follow are paid obituaries and remembrances, available to families and the public; these listings must be purchased by 3 p.m. Monday through Friday and/or by 11 a.m. Saturday. E-mail us at obitphoto@bakersfield.com to be published in the next day's paper. Contact the classified advertising department at 395-7302. Full obituaries with photos are available on the Internet at bakersfield.com at 9 p.m. on the day before publication. No services Ronald Dominick, 73, Tehachapi, Sept. 14. Wood Family Funeral Service, Tehachapi. Leo Louis Petsuch, 84, Bakersfield, Sept. 17. Neptune Society. Services pending Charles Alexander, 69, Taft, Sept. 13 in Bakersfield. West Side Memorial Services, Taft. Gerald Appleton, 85, Bakersfield, Sept. 17. Mish Funeral Home. Joe Luis Camarillo, 43, Bakersfield, Sept. 14. Davis Rose Funeral Homes & Rose Crematorium, Bakersfield. Gilberto Cortez Chavez, 83, McFarland, Sept. 16 in Delano. Davis Rose Funeral Homes & Rose Crematorium, Bakersfield. Ada Coleman, 88, Kernville, Sept. 17 in Mountain Mesa. Sierra Mortuary & Funeral Home, Lake Isabella. Angela Josefina De La Fuente, infant, Bakersfield, Sept. 16. Hopson-Anspach Family Mortuary, Lamont. Louis Juarez, 50, California City, Sept. 16 in Arvin. Mish Funeral Home. Teri Lynn Kozy, 49, Bakersfield, Sept. 14. Davis Rose Funeral Homes & Rose Crematorium, Bakersfield. Maudi Oliver, 86, Bakersfield, Sept. 18. Mish Funeral Home. Connor Santillan-Rodriguze, infant, Bakersfield, Sept. 17 in Los Angeles. Basham Funeral Care. Benjamin D. Thomas Don Soto, 53, Bakersfield, Sept. 15. Davis Rose Funeral Homes & Rose Crematorium, Bakersfield. Steven White, 48, Bakersfield, Sept. 17. Basham Funeral Care. Services scheduled posted by
sagefever
on Sep 20, 2007 at 05:34 PM
Bravo! I kept thinking I should tell P. to go back and read what I wrote after both of my boys died. Clarity is not ones long suit at that time...you lose your mind literally.
posted by
possummomma
on Sep 20, 2007 at 06:01 PM
I already did apologize. Profusely. You want my firstborn while we're at it? I'm very, very sorry that Teri has died. posted by
sagefever
on Sep 20, 2007 at 06:19 PM
Relax~ I did not see the apology. Some of your posts, on the other blog may have struck some as a bit strident. Peace to all.
posted by
bakonative
on Sep 20, 2007 at 11:57 PM
Amen. And peace be with all especially Gary and family.
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