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witterpitters - > -> Never judge someone...
Never judge someone...

Never judge someone...

'Some people!' snorted a man standing behind me in the long line at the grocery store.  'You would think the manager would pay attention and open another line, 'said a woman.

I looked to the front of the line to see what the hold up was and saw a well dressed, young woman, trying to get the machine to accept her credit card. No matter how many times she swiped it, the machine kept rejecting it.

'It's one of them welfare card things. Damn people need to get a job like everyone else,' said the man standing behind me.

The young woman turned around to see who had made the comment.. 

It was me,' he said, pointing to himself.

The young lady's face began to change expression.  Almost in tears, she dropped the welfare card onto the counter and quickly walked out of the store. Everyone in the checkout line watched as she began running to her car.. Never looking back, she got in and drove way.

After developing cancer in 1977 and having had to use food stamps; I had learned never to judge anyone, without knowing the circumstances of their life. This turned out to be the case today.

Several minutes later a young man walked into the store. He went up to the cashier and asked if she had seen the woman. After describing her, the cashier told him that she had run out of the store, got into her car, and drove away.

'Why would she do that?' asked the man. Everyone in the line looked around at the fellow who had made the statement.  'I made a stupid comment about the welfare card she was using.  Something I shouldn't have said. I'm sorry,' said the man.

'Well, that's bad, real bad, in fact.  Her brother was killed in Afghanistan two years ago. He had three young children and she has taken on that responsibility. She's twenty years old, single, and now has three children to support,' he said in a very firm voice.

'I'm really truly sorry. I didn't know,' he replied, Shaking both his hands about.

The young man asked, 'Are these paid for?' pointing to the shopping cart full of groceries.

'It wouldn't take her card'  the clerk told him.

'Do you know where she lives?' asked the man who had made the comment.

'Yes, she goes to our church.'

'Excuse me,' he said as he made his way to the front of the line. He pulled out his wallet, took out his credit card and told the cashier, 'Please use my card.  PLEASE!' The clerk took his credit card and began to ring up the young woman's groceries.

Hold on,' said the gentleman. He walked back to his shopping cart and began loading his own groceries onto the belt to be included. 'Come on people. We got three kids to help raise!' he told everyone in line.

Everyone began to place their groceries onto the fast moving belt. A few customers began bagging the food and placing it into separate carts.. 'Go back and get two big turkeys,' yelled a heavyset woman, as she looked at the man.

'NO,' yelled the man.    Everyone stopped dead in their tracks. The entire store became quiet for several seconds. 'Four turkeys,' yelled the man. Everyone began laughing and went back to work.

When all was said and done, the man paid a total of $1,646.57 for the groceries. He then walked over to the side,  pulled out his check book, and began writing a check using the bags of dog food piled near the front of the store for a writing surface. He
Turned around and handed the check to the young man.  'She will need a freezer and a few other things as well,' he told the man.

The young man looked at the check and said, 'This is really very generous of you.'

'No, ' said the man. 'Her brother was the generous one.'

Everyone in the store had been observing the odd commotion and began to clap.  And I drove home that day feeling very American.

We live in the Land of the free, because of the Brave!!

Remember our Troops of Yesterday and Today!!!

A great example of why we should be kind and patient.  Kindness is the language the blind can see and the deaf can hear.

May God's many blessings continue to be with you  -  ALWAYS!!!


IT WILL OPEN A LOT OF EYES,
HOPEFULLY HEARTS,
AND KEEP SOME MOUTHS SHUT..


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posted by witterpitters on Monday, November 2, 2009 at 07:45 PM
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posted by midterm2 on Nov 2, 2009 at 08:24 PM

These two pull this scam every day at a different store, in a different town!

posted by catpaw on Nov 3, 2009 at 07:48 AM

True story: When I was a grocery checker (in a different lifetime) a well dressed elderly couple bought about 12 pounds of London broil and paid with food stamps. They proceeded to a new Lincoln and put it in the trunk.

A customer in line ranted about food stamp abuse.

The couple bought the steak on sale, priced about the same as 70% lean hamburger. They subsisted on social security. They were dressed in their Sunday best, which was years old. They didn't own a car, it was loaned by a friend or relative. I was the person who told this couple about the sale. 

I guess I could have told the offended customer the facts, but it was none of his business. That, and I didn't want to blow his theory. 

Recent true story: Obviously pregnant 18 year old was called a bitch and a whore by fundamentalists as she entered the Planned Parenthood office on G Street. Got called a "minion of Satan" for "murdering her baby" as she left. Make a story short, the appointment had nothing to do with getting an abortion.

Moral of these incidents: If you're going to think the worst of people, stick to every mothers advice. "If you can't say something nice...." 

posted by witterpitters on Nov 3, 2009 at 08:28 AM

MIDTERM2:  This story is just that - a story. I do not know if it is true or not, and IMO, it doesn't matter. The point of the story is to NOT judge a book by the cover. The point is we need to know the FACTS of a situation before making a judgment.  I have been guilty myself of seeing someone paying with food stamps and thinking not so nice things - although I have never said anything - and I have to stop and think, "there but for the grace of God go I". And, yes, I get ticked off when I see certain foods being purchased that I can't afford (Cornish game hens - a dozen of them!) or junk food being purchased, chips, sodas, ice cream, donuts, etc.

There is a blog on here somewhere, wherein a blogger actually observed food stamp abuse and nobody said a thing, not even the checker, and that is wrong.  There are just as many people who receive food stamps who use them wisely.  There are abuses with EVERYTHING.  There will always be someone who will find a loop hole in the system and abuse it.

 

posted by mrsearnhardt88 on Nov 3, 2009 at 10:01 AM

 

I have two jobs- one is commission only the other is $8 and hour but lately I haven't been given a lot of hours since the store has been really slow.  In fact my benefit amount dropped last month because I WAS getting a bunch of hours.  That's not the case now though.   I have 4 people to feed, the ex is 12 months behind in child support.  I appreciate the help.  Otherwise we would have no food and no way to buy it without the help.

 

I don't abuse my card.  I buy stuff that's on sale, store brands, generics.  I get as much as I can but I am very frugal.  When it's gone, it's gone.  Have to wait until the next month.

posted by pogo on Nov 3, 2009 at 10:11 AM

I figure for every one person who abuses the system there at least 10 others who are getting some good out of it, so I say live and let live.


posted by FloridaStateGrad on Nov 3, 2009 at 04:05 PM

Though it's just a story, should it have mattered if this woman's brother was killed in Afghanistan and she had to raise his kids?

 

We shouldn't judge people: period. 

posted by witterpitters on Nov 3, 2009 at 04:20 PM

And yet you do don't you FSG.  Your comments regarding my "usual cut and paste crap" "bs" etc. You don't consider that a "judgement" of me?  I certainly did. Basically you are "implying" I don't have a brain cell to do anything else. I probably have no thoughts of my own so I "cut and paste".  That is a judgement of someone, is it not? 


posted by FloridaStateGrad on Nov 5, 2009 at 02:08 PM

Actually, Witters, I base my comments regarding your posts on the content of what I've seen from you.  That's not judging - it's called observation.

 

Now, if after only viewing one post of yours, I decided to claim that you did nothing but "cut and paste," then I'd be casting judgement, much like how the man in the story took one look at the girl and assumed she was a waste of space who was taking advantage of government aid.

 

 

To answer your question, I think you have a brain, and I think you are completely capable of using it; however many times you do tend to post things that are completely hokey - especially the stupid chain letters (they're the worst).

The reason why I make comments about your copy/pastes is because more often than not, they're over-dramatized and based off of little reality.  Oftentimes the point they make is one-sided and many times outright wrong.

You have every right to post them, and I have every right to point out that the majority of your blog posts are copy/pastes and provide little real substance.  

posted by ALICEN on Nov 5, 2009 at 06:13 PM

 Thanks for the post, WP.  I enjoyed the story, whether it's true or not.  Usually I can find a gem of truth and kernels of worth in everything you post, whether it's something you've cut and pasted or whether it's something else.  Usually they're just funny.  This one had a moral to the story, so to speak, and it was worth my time to read it. 

posted by FloridaStateGrad on Nov 6, 2009 at 07:52 AM

ALICEN to the rescue.. quick.. say something nice!

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