http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063 When two people (spouse)are involved in a dispute who is the one who deserves the D.V. charge? What if the woman is hitting just as much as the man is hitting, do they both go to jail? If they both go to jail for fighting do you think the kids should be taken away? Our show's topic this week is domestic violence&nbsp;we need some input on what you think...&nbsp; When two people (spouse)are involved in a dispute who is the one who deserves the D.V. charge? What if the woman is hitting just as much as the man is hitting, do they both go to jail? If they both go to jail for fighting do you think the kids should be taken away? Our show's topic this week is domestic violence&nbsp;we need some input on what you think...&nbsp; en-us <p>Absolutely, if both are fighting, they should both go to jail.&nbsp; Unfortunately for the children, they will be taken away.&nbsp; Most likely next of kin (i.e. grandparents) will be able to take the children.&nbsp;</p> http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_233977 http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_233977 <p>Absolutely, if both are fighting, they should both go to jail.&nbsp; Unfortunately for the children, they will be taken away.&nbsp; Most likely next of kin (i.e. grandparents) will be able to take the children.&nbsp;</p> <p>62 views, and only 1 comment?&nbsp;That is sad tj. Maybe people don't want to comment since you are a convicted wife beater. But I will....</p> http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234083 http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234083 <p>62 views, and only 1 comment?&nbsp;That is sad tj. Maybe people don't want to comment since you are a convicted wife beater. But I will....</p> <p>You see that on COPS all the time. Both go to jail. If a 100-pound woman hits a 250-pound man, and he doesn't hit back,&nbsp;she goes to jail, whether he deserved it or not.</p> http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234084 http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234084 <p>You see that on COPS all the time. Both go to jail. If a 100-pound woman hits a 250-pound man, and he doesn't hit back,&nbsp;she goes to jail, whether he deserved it or not.</p> <p>From the time our boys are little, we try to instill upon them that under no circumstances are they to hit a girl.  This value doesn't always stick.  Especially when confronted by a female who takes advantage of that rule.  Women who hit should be treated the same as men who hit, regardless of their size.  The children of couples who engage in these violent matches should be removed from the home and placed in a safer, more stable environment.</p> http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234090 http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234090 <p>From the time our boys are little, we try to instill upon them that under no circumstances are they to hit a girl.  This value doesn't always stick.  Especially when confronted by a female who takes advantage of that rule.  Women who hit should be treated the same as men who hit, regardless of their size.  The children of couples who engage in these violent matches should be removed from the home and placed in a safer, more stable environment.</p> <p>ob56, you must be a cop or you have been beaten by your wife or husband for that matter!?!you take this issue awful serious just like tcinbako...did you hear your shout out last weekend? hope you liked it, oh yeah turns out you lied about the lipstick too, maybe you cant help but lie about everything:-)</p> http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234099 http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234099 <p>ob56, you must be a cop or you have been beaten by your wife or husband for that matter!?!you take this issue awful serious just like tcinbako...did you hear your shout out last weekend? hope you liked it, oh yeah turns out you lied about the lipstick too, maybe you cant help but lie about everything:-)</p> <p><span style="font-size: small">My ex beat me up......................<u><i><b>once</b></i></u>.&nbsp; I didn't hit him back, I went after him with the biggest knife I could put my hands on in the kitchen!&nbsp; The next day I had the locks changed and filed for a divorce. THE END!!&nbsp; Oh - I didn't see him again for 2 weeks and then he hollered for me at the end of the drive way!!! HA!&nbsp; He actually told me I was crazy and I told him to remember that fact!&nbsp; I didn't hear from him for 30 years!</span></p> http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234110 http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234110 <p><span style="font-size: small">My ex beat me up......................<u><i><b>once</b></i></u>.&nbsp; I didn't hit him back, I went after him with the biggest knife I could put my hands on in the kitchen!&nbsp; The next day I had the locks changed and filed for a divorce. THE END!!&nbsp; Oh - I didn't see him again for 2 weeks and then he hollered for me at the end of the drive way!!! HA!&nbsp; He actually told me I was crazy and I told him to remember that fact!&nbsp; I didn't hear from him for 30 years!</span></p> <p>tjtheds, the lipstick comment was only meant to get your goat. I see it worked. :)</p> <p>And like I said before, I won't listen to your radio show. It would be a big waste of my time.</p> <p>And would you PLEASE type like a semi-intelligent person? Capital letters and proper grammar goes a long way to make you look credible. Just a suggestion Slick. &nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234120 http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234120 <p>tjtheds, the lipstick comment was only meant to get your goat. I see it worked. :)</p> <p>And like I said before, I won't listen to your radio show. It would be a big waste of my time.</p> <p>And would you PLEASE type like a semi-intelligent person? Capital letters and proper grammar goes a long way to make you look credible. Just a suggestion Slick. &nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>TJ - Did you always get a&nbsp; &quot;U&quot;&nbsp; on the plays well with others line on your report cards?&nbsp; When it gets down to it, you can avoid all of this by treating your spouse with love and respect from the start.&nbsp; From your last two or three blog rants where you spewed forth words that would make a pirate blush when you publicly talked about your ex, I realize you have a big problem with this.&nbsp; Abuse is wrong coming from both sides and in the end only hurts the kids.&nbsp;&nbsp; Only God and the spouse abusers know the truth about who is responsible!&nbsp; </p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>On another note, I can't believe you are still on the air but I guess In the grand scheme of things you do fit in quite well with lawyers!</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>U =&nbsp; Unsatisfactory , my loving wife reminded me that some peoples kindergarten report cards didn't use U's and S's but&nbsp; + plus and&nbsp; - minus signs......</p> <p>She didn't however hit me up side the head to get her point across!</p> http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234124 http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234124 <p>TJ - Did you always get a&nbsp; &quot;U&quot;&nbsp; on the plays well with others line on your report cards?&nbsp; When it gets down to it, you can avoid all of this by treating your spouse with love and respect from the start.&nbsp; From your last two or three blog rants where you spewed forth words that would make a pirate blush when you publicly talked about your ex, I realize you have a big problem with this.&nbsp; Abuse is wrong coming from both sides and in the end only hurts the kids.&nbsp;&nbsp; Only God and the spouse abusers know the truth about who is responsible!&nbsp; </p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>On another note, I can't believe you are still on the air but I guess In the grand scheme of things you do fit in quite well with lawyers!</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>U =&nbsp; Unsatisfactory , my loving wife reminded me that some peoples kindergarten report cards didn't use U's and S's but&nbsp; + plus and&nbsp; - minus signs......</p> <p>She didn't however hit me up side the head to get her point across!</p> <p>OldBlue - I like the name change you came up with.&nbsp; Does&nbsp; TJtheds stand from dumb or dip?&nbsp; You can read a lot into it and I would like to make sure I'm clear as to your intent. </p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Apparently he is the crazy stalker since he must have tracked her down and asked the question!&nbsp; ROFL.................</p> <p>I'll bet he was a controlling little wife beater too!</p> http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234125 http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234125 <p>OldBlue - I like the name change you came up with.&nbsp; Does&nbsp; TJtheds stand from dumb or dip?&nbsp; You can read a lot into it and I would like to make sure I'm clear as to your intent. </p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Apparently he is the crazy stalker since he must have tracked her down and asked the question!&nbsp; ROFL.................</p> <p>I'll bet he was a controlling little wife beater too!</p> <p>I missed the shout-out too.&nbsp; Lots of good things to do during the day instead of listening to a useless talk show.</p> <p>I'd like to help clear your record TJ. I don't believe OldBLue that you are a convicted wife beater.&nbsp; What's your first name name so I can look it up and prove him wrong?</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234127 http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234127 <p>I missed the shout-out too.&nbsp; Lots of good things to do during the day instead of listening to a useless talk show.</p> <p>I'd like to help clear your record TJ. I don't believe OldBLue that you are a convicted wife beater.&nbsp; What's your first name name so I can look it up and prove him wrong?</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Wow TC, you hit the DS right on. I'm impressed....</p> http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234160 http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234160 <p>Wow TC, you hit the DS right on. I'm impressed....</p> <p>oldtimer56, i dont have a goat...i know you and tcinwacko are upset you dont have a talkshow, but dont hate me cause i do! "dont hate me cause you aint me" my real name is not given out because of "gun totin right wing lunatics" like you...that was your shout out on sat. bakersfield likes our show, and by the way i do fit in with lawyers hope you dont need one anytime soon  :-) oldtimer56 you never answered my question you a cop or did you get abused as a child?</p> http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234167 http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234167 <p>oldtimer56, i dont have a goat...i know you and tcinwacko are upset you dont have a talkshow, but dont hate me cause i do! "dont hate me cause you aint me" my real name is not given out because of "gun totin right wing lunatics" like you...that was your shout out on sat. bakersfield likes our show, and by the way i do fit in with lawyers hope you dont need one anytime soon  :-) oldtimer56 you never answered my question you a cop or did you get abused as a child?</p> <p>tcinwacko,u-u-u-u-u-u all grades</p> http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234168 http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234168 <p>tcinwacko,u-u-u-u-u-u all grades</p> <p>OldBlue -&nbsp; Yeah but I had help to stay on target!&nbsp; TJtheds makes it way too easy!</p> <p style="text-align: center;">&nbsp;</p> http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234172 http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234172 <p>OldBlue -&nbsp; Yeah but I had help to stay on target!&nbsp; TJtheds makes it way too easy!</p> <p style="text-align: center;">&nbsp;</p> <p>check out that new blog post guys:-)</p> http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234173 http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234173 <p>check out that new blog post guys:-)</p> <p>Dude - I found your ID card</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p><img border="3" src="http://www.lineoutrecords.com/malfunction/images/dbcard04.gif" alt="" />&nbsp;</p> http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234176 http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234176 <p>Dude - I found your ID card</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p><img border="3" src="http://www.lineoutrecords.com/malfunction/images/dbcard04.gif" alt="" />&nbsp;</p> <p><u><i><b><span style="color: #ff0000"><span style="font-family: Arial"><span style="font-size: small">No one has the right to hit anyone</span></span></span></b></i></u><span style="color: #ff0000"><span style="font-family: Arial"><span style="font-size: small">.&nbsp; There is no excuse for any type of physical abuse.&nbsp; If the woman is doing the hitting, she should go to jail just as much as if it were a man doing the hitting.&nbsp; If both are doing the hitting, take them both to jail!&nbsp; If they don't want to risk loosing their children, then both should consider the consequences of their actions and realize <u><b>it is not worth going to jail over</b></u>.</span></span></span></p> http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234227 http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234227 <p><u><i><b><span style="color: #ff0000"><span style="font-family: Arial"><span style="font-size: small">No one has the right to hit anyone</span></span></span></b></i></u><span style="color: #ff0000"><span style="font-family: Arial"><span style="font-size: small">.&nbsp; There is no excuse for any type of physical abuse.&nbsp; If the woman is doing the hitting, she should go to jail just as much as if it were a man doing the hitting.&nbsp; If both are doing the hitting, take them both to jail!&nbsp; If they don't want to risk loosing their children, then both should consider the consequences of their actions and realize <u><b>it is not worth going to jail over</b></u>.</span></span></span></p> <p><span style="color: #0000ff"><span style="font-family: Arial"><span style="font-size: small">Oh, and one other thing, don't tolerate staying with someone who physically or mentally abuses you; noone deserves to be mistreated or disrespected.</span></span></span></p> http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234229 http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234229 <p><span style="color: #0000ff"><span style="font-family: Arial"><span style="font-size: small">Oh, and one other thing, don't tolerate staying with someone who physically or mentally abuses you; noone deserves to be mistreated or disrespected.</span></span></span></p> <p><span style="font-size: small"><span style="font-family: Comic Sans MS">Both should go to jail and the children should go to a relative. If one of them should be given a break it should be the woman. Women have children to raise and the man is the aggressor 99.9% of the time....</span></span></p> http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234261 http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234261 <p><span style="font-size: small"><span style="font-family: Comic Sans MS">Both should go to jail and the children should go to a relative. If one of them should be given a break it should be the woman. Women have children to raise and the man is the aggressor 99.9% of the time....</span></span></p> <p>GO ahead and knock the crap outta each other..thats how familys like ours are formed..we pick up the pieces from broken homes and try to fix these babies that are innocent bystanders..</p> <p>The thing that errks me is when familys finally go over board from years of screwin up these kids_Be it abuse, drugs whatever..</p> <p>Then they finally end up in a home that is trying to help them put the pieces back together and get a chance to have a near normal life and education .Then these 20+ year old social workers fresh outta school come in with "all their expereince" and force these babies back into the unhealthy environment that took years of abuse to be finally removed from in the first place. JUST TO GO THROUGH IT ALL OVER AGAIN.</p> <p>Its no wonder when they finally hit 18 and are forced to fend for themselves they dont know which end is up.Leave them alone..let them get as near a normal childhood as is possibly left..then let them choose when they come of age whether or not they wish to rejoin their dysfunctional familys.</p> <p> </p> http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234264 http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234264 <p>GO ahead and knock the crap outta each other..thats how familys like ours are formed..we pick up the pieces from broken homes and try to fix these babies that are innocent bystanders..</p> <p>The thing that errks me is when familys finally go over board from years of screwin up these kids_Be it abuse, drugs whatever..</p> <p>Then they finally end up in a home that is trying to help them put the pieces back together and get a chance to have a near normal life and education .Then these 20+ year old social workers fresh outta school come in with "all their expereince" and force these babies back into the unhealthy environment that took years of abuse to be finally removed from in the first place. JUST TO GO THROUGH IT ALL OVER AGAIN.</p> <p>Its no wonder when they finally hit 18 and are forced to fend for themselves they dont know which end is up.Leave them alone..let them get as near a normal childhood as is possibly left..then let them choose when they come of age whether or not they wish to rejoin their dysfunctional familys.</p> <p> </p> <p>Timec ha ha where do you get that statistic that men are the aggressors 99.9 of the time.......</p> http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234272 http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234272 <p>Timec ha ha where do you get that statistic that men are the aggressors 99.9 of the time.......</p> <p>im a firm beliver that if a woman puts her self in a mans place she deserves to be hit back like a man. now if a woman is simply defending herself she should not be charged. you can expect us to just lay there and take it. as for the kids they should be removed anyways, if theres that much hostiality in the home its not safe for&nbsp;a child</p> http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234313 http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234313 <p>im a firm beliver that if a woman puts her self in a mans place she deserves to be hit back like a man. now if a woman is simply defending herself she should not be charged. you can expect us to just lay there and take it. as for the kids they should be removed anyways, if theres that much hostiality in the home its not safe for&nbsp;a child</p> <p>littleone,&nbsp;I see from your profile that you went to South High. That&nbsp;explains your terrible typing, spelling,&nbsp;and grammar. And was tj one of your classmates?</p> http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234320 http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234320 <p>littleone,&nbsp;I see from your profile that you went to South High. That&nbsp;explains your terrible typing, spelling,&nbsp;and grammar. And was tj one of your classmates?</p> <p>oldtimer56, did you see that blog? it just dawned on me, you aren't a cop your a school teacher...with way to much time on your hands:-)</p> <br /> http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234352 http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234352 <p>oldtimer56, did you see that blog? it just dawned on me, you aren't a cop your a school teacher...with way to much time on your hands:-)</p> <br /> <p>You are correct wife abuser, I do have some free time on my hands. I would get a part time job, but my CPA said if I made any more money the IRS would just take it in taxes. So forget that.</p> <p>And it's not &quot;your&quot; a school teacher, it's &quot;you're&quot;.</p> http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234368 http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234368 <p>You are correct wife abuser, I do have some free time on my hands. I would get a part time job, but my CPA said if I made any more money the IRS would just take it in taxes. So forget that.</p> <p>And it's not &quot;your&quot; a school teacher, it's &quot;you're&quot;.</p> <p>A journalism career?&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Seriously?&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Nahhhhh...lol.</p> <p>I remind people all the time...spell check is your friend.&nbsp; The little box with the ABC and a check mark above will do wonders for folks credibility.&nbsp; We all make typos but when a post is made up almost entirely of them, then there's a problem with a persons real motivation level.</p> http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234387 http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234387 <p>A journalism career?&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Seriously?&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; Nahhhhh...lol.</p> <p>I remind people all the time...spell check is your friend.&nbsp; The little box with the ABC and a check mark above will do wonders for folks credibility.&nbsp; We all make typos but when a post is made up almost entirely of them, then there's a problem with a persons real motivation level.</p> <p><span style="color: #ff00ff">&nbsp;TJ- No one cares if you have a talk show or radio show or whatever.. sorry. </span></p> <p><span style="color: #ff00ff">Back to the original post... as a witness&nbsp;to a domestic abuse case not to long ago, I've seen (in that case) that even though it happend to be his fault they (attornies) <span style="color: #33cccc">tried </span>to pull out things from the past to take down both parties (veering away from the original case)... also as I have seen where the man had hit the woman, and then the woman pushed him back in self defense and because he bruised a lot easier and had a mark on him, she went to jail, DA got ahold of this and turned it around back to him. I dont believe that anyone should lay one finger on anyone. violence doesnt solve anything. </span></p> http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234464 http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234464 <p><span style="color: #ff00ff">&nbsp;TJ- No one cares if you have a talk show or radio show or whatever.. sorry. </span></p> <p><span style="color: #ff00ff">Back to the original post... as a witness&nbsp;to a domestic abuse case not to long ago, I've seen (in that case) that even though it happend to be his fault they (attornies) <span style="color: #33cccc">tried </span>to pull out things from the past to take down both parties (veering away from the original case)... also as I have seen where the man had hit the woman, and then the woman pushed him back in self defense and because he bruised a lot easier and had a mark on him, she went to jail, DA got ahold of this and turned it around back to him. I dont believe that anyone should lay one finger on anyone. violence doesnt solve anything. </span></p> <p>Tiffani, you mean the attorneys didn't stick to the facts and tried blowing smoke up the judge/juries butts? I have heard of that happening.</p> http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234468 http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234468 <p>Tiffani, you mean the attorneys didn't stick to the facts and tried blowing smoke up the judge/juries butts? I have heard of that happening.</p> <p><span style="font-size: small"><span style="font-family: Comic Sans MS">Gube </span></span></p> <p><span style="font-size: small"><span style="font-family: Comic Sans MS">Let me rephrase that....I believe men are the aggressors 99.9% of the time. A woman can not&nbsp; beat up a man. ...not even the scrawny ones. Men are stronger than women. Us women just have big mouths that drive&nbsp;men over the edge. I know my husband has wanted to lay me out because of my mouth..(he never would)...but there are men that can't handle themselves and would lay their wife/girlfriend out in a heartbeat. A woman is just not going to approach her husband and say where have you been?......tell me....boom! Men are the aggressors. </span></span></p> http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234476 http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234476 <p><span style="font-size: small"><span style="font-family: Comic Sans MS">Gube </span></span></p> <p><span style="font-size: small"><span style="font-family: Comic Sans MS">Let me rephrase that....I believe men are the aggressors 99.9% of the time. A woman can not&nbsp; beat up a man. ...not even the scrawny ones. Men are stronger than women. Us women just have big mouths that drive&nbsp;men over the edge. I know my husband has wanted to lay me out because of my mouth..(he never would)...but there are men that can't handle themselves and would lay their wife/girlfriend out in a heartbeat. A woman is just not going to approach her husband and say where have you been?......tell me....boom! Men are the aggressors. </span></span></p> <p>timec, I have seen some gals in the hood who could beat the crap out of their husbands or boyfriends with one hand tied behind their backs. When they went off, they screamed and hollered and became maniacs. Throw in the fact that many of them tipped the scales at 250+ pounds and oh God, watch out! The po-po who went to arrest them needed extra back-up!</p> http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234489 http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234489 <p>timec, I have seen some gals in the hood who could beat the crap out of their husbands or boyfriends with one hand tied behind their backs. When they went off, they screamed and hollered and became maniacs. Throw in the fact that many of them tipped the scales at 250+ pounds and oh God, watch out! The po-po who went to arrest them needed extra back-up!</p> <p><span style="font-family: Comic Sans MS"><span style="font-size: small">lol</span></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: Comic Sans MS"><span style="font-size: small">I know a couple of those women too!...Ghetto!</span></span></p> http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234503 http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234503 <p><span style="font-family: Comic Sans MS"><span style="font-size: small">lol</span></span></p> <p><span style="font-family: Comic Sans MS"><span style="font-size: small">I know a couple of those women too!...Ghetto!</span></span></p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Inexplicably, prisons are full of undisciplined savages too stupid to grasp the very obvious fact&nbsp;that a simple blow with a closed fist or even open hand can cause great bodily harm and&nbsp;land&nbsp;the aggressor in jail&nbsp;like beer basher&nbsp;Reed&nbsp;for&nbsp;battery, manslaughter or even murder.</p> <p>Reed probably didn't intend to kill Johnson, but he was just too damn dumb to consider the consequences of his actions.</p> <p>One's propensity for violence seems directly proportionate&nbsp;to the degree of one's intellectual capacity.</p> <p>Smart people generally aren't beating up on others, especially their families and friends.</p> <p>Striking one's spouse or striking back&nbsp;at an enraged spouse? Stupid, Savage. Dangerous.</p> <p>Smart, disciplined people avoid such violent encounters and walk away.</p> <p>How many ways can one say that there is absoutely no excuse for beating on anyone, man woman or child, at any time for any reason other than self defense under clearly and completely unavoidable circumstances.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234509 http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234509 <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Inexplicably, prisons are full of undisciplined savages too stupid to grasp the very obvious fact&nbsp;that a simple blow with a closed fist or even open hand can cause great bodily harm and&nbsp;land&nbsp;the aggressor in jail&nbsp;like beer basher&nbsp;Reed&nbsp;for&nbsp;battery, manslaughter or even murder.</p> <p>Reed probably didn't intend to kill Johnson, but he was just too damn dumb to consider the consequences of his actions.</p> <p>One's propensity for violence seems directly proportionate&nbsp;to the degree of one's intellectual capacity.</p> <p>Smart people generally aren't beating up on others, especially their families and friends.</p> <p>Striking one's spouse or striking back&nbsp;at an enraged spouse? Stupid, Savage. Dangerous.</p> <p>Smart, disciplined people avoid such violent encounters and walk away.</p> <p>How many ways can one say that there is absoutely no excuse for beating on anyone, man woman or child, at any time for any reason other than self defense under clearly and completely unavoidable circumstances.</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p><span style="color: #ff00ff">&nbsp;i may be little but i can handle my own too, im not ghetto, but when a 215 pound <span style="color: #0000ff">navy </span>man tried to lay his fingers on me, he learned really fast... but thats another story. </span></p> <p><span style="color: #ff00ff">OB- yes it was a case that took a year to even get to anywhere with.... his attorney fought and fought and turned down 3 plea bargins... then his attorney died (karma? maybe) and then at the next hearing the defendant pleaded guilty,... and only in kern county can you have 7 felonies and 3 misdemeanors and get away with probation and fines... let me tell you this wasnt his first offense either... </span></p> <p><span style="color: #ff00ff">Its not right to be physically violent (emotionally either) and it still happens all the time... i dont understand why. </span></p> http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234512 http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234512 <p><span style="color: #ff00ff">&nbsp;i may be little but i can handle my own too, im not ghetto, but when a 215 pound <span style="color: #0000ff">navy </span>man tried to lay his fingers on me, he learned really fast... but thats another story. </span></p> <p><span style="color: #ff00ff">OB- yes it was a case that took a year to even get to anywhere with.... his attorney fought and fought and turned down 3 plea bargins... then his attorney died (karma? maybe) and then at the next hearing the defendant pleaded guilty,... and only in kern county can you have 7 felonies and 3 misdemeanors and get away with probation and fines... let me tell you this wasnt his first offense either... </span></p> <p><span style="color: #ff00ff">Its not right to be physically violent (emotionally either) and it still happens all the time... i dont understand why. </span></p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Witterpitters: <span style="color: #0000ff"><i>&quot;<font size="2">I went after him with the biggest knife I could put my hands on in the kitchen!&quot;</font></i></span></p> <p><font size="2">It's fortunate&nbsp;that you can chuckle about it now.</font></p> <p><font size="2">But the sobering reality is that prisons contain lots of&nbsp;unthinking people who picked up knives and went after someone.</font></p> <p><font size="2">Some are in graveyards.</font></p> <p><font size="2">What if you had caught the guy?</font></p> <p><font size="2">Would you have stabbed him? Would he have lived?</font></p> <p><font size="2">Might he have wrested the knife from you and stabbed you with it? Would you have lived?</font></p> <p><font size="2">There are dozens of&nbsp;other possible scenarios&nbsp;that could have landed your butt in the slammer, hospital&nbsp;or&nbsp;morgue.</font></p> <p><font size="2">Right or wrong, could you afford the many thousands of dollars&nbsp;needed for legal counsel, or would you have been forced&nbsp;to struggle through the justice system&nbsp;with a public defender?</font></p> <p><font size="2">In your case, it fortunately worked out that&nbsp;the incident didn't escalate further and&nbsp;you can point proudly and defiantly&nbsp;to your great courage, b</font><font size="2">ut there could easily have been other&nbsp;devastating conclusions.</font></p> <p><font size="2">Congratulations.</font></p> <p><font size="2">You lucked out.</font></p> <p>&nbsp;</p> http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234536 http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234536 <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Witterpitters: <span style="color: #0000ff"><i>&quot;<font size="2">I went after him with the biggest knife I could put my hands on in the kitchen!&quot;</font></i></span></p> <p><font size="2">It's fortunate&nbsp;that you can chuckle about it now.</font></p> <p><font size="2">But the sobering reality is that prisons contain lots of&nbsp;unthinking people who picked up knives and went after someone.</font></p> <p><font size="2">Some are in graveyards.</font></p> <p><font size="2">What if you had caught the guy?</font></p> <p><font size="2">Would you have stabbed him? Would he have lived?</font></p> <p><font size="2">Might he have wrested the knife from you and stabbed you with it? Would you have lived?</font></p> <p><font size="2">There are dozens of&nbsp;other possible scenarios&nbsp;that could have landed your butt in the slammer, hospital&nbsp;or&nbsp;morgue.</font></p> <p><font size="2">Right or wrong, could you afford the many thousands of dollars&nbsp;needed for legal counsel, or would you have been forced&nbsp;to struggle through the justice system&nbsp;with a public defender?</font></p> <p><font size="2">In your case, it fortunately worked out that&nbsp;the incident didn't escalate further and&nbsp;you can point proudly and defiantly&nbsp;to your great courage, b</font><font size="2">ut there could easily have been other&nbsp;devastating conclusions.</font></p> <p><font size="2">Congratulations.</font></p> <p><font size="2">You lucked out.</font></p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>Tiffanilynn - Are you talking about TJ in your comments above?</p> <p>....<span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 255);">and only in kern county can you have 7 felonies and 3 misdemeanors and get away with probation and fines... let me tell you this wasnt his first offense either...</span></p> <p>I'll bet his record rivals that one!&nbsp; </p> <p>Like Saberhagen said &quot;Reed probably didn't intend to kill Johnson, but he was just too damn dumb to consider the consequences of his actions.&quot;&nbsp; Reading TJ's blog along with 30 minutes of painful listening to the show one time, I realize that he doesn't understand the consequences of his actions.&nbsp; Take a lesson TJ - just sit in the corner where you won't hurt yourself or others.</p> <p style="text-align: center;"><img width="250" vspace="4" hspace="4" height="279" border="3" src="http://home.hawaii.rr.com/ax1s/dumbass.jpg" alt="" /></p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234632 http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234632 <p>Tiffanilynn - Are you talking about TJ in your comments above?</p> <p>....<span style="color: rgb(255, 0, 255);">and only in kern county can you have 7 felonies and 3 misdemeanors and get away with probation and fines... let me tell you this wasnt his first offense either...</span></p> <p>I'll bet his record rivals that one!&nbsp; </p> <p>Like Saberhagen said &quot;Reed probably didn't intend to kill Johnson, but he was just too damn dumb to consider the consequences of his actions.&quot;&nbsp; Reading TJ's blog along with 30 minutes of painful listening to the show one time, I realize that he doesn't understand the consequences of his actions.&nbsp; Take a lesson TJ - just sit in the corner where you won't hurt yourself or others.</p> <p style="text-align: center;"><img width="250" vspace="4" hspace="4" height="279" border="3" src="http://home.hawaii.rr.com/ax1s/dumbass.jpg" alt="" /></p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>&nbsp;</p> <p>close, but no cigar tcinwaco</p> <br /> http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234635 http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234635 <p>close, but no cigar tcinwaco</p> <br /> <p><span style="color: #ff00ff">&nbsp;TC- haha no that time i wasnt talking about TJ.. just something i went through in the past.... sounds like him though huh? LOL</span></p> http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234817 http://people.bakersfield.com/home/Blog/TjtheDJ/26063/#c_234817 <p><span style="color: #ff00ff">&nbsp;TC- haha no that time i wasnt talking about TJ.. just something i went through in the past.... sounds like him though huh? LOL</span></p>