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Ray
is immersed in the whole name changing biz that goes along with being married. I hope to blog about the experience.

About Ray

Oklahoma farm boy who has lived in California for 35 years, mostly in Fresno but now in the Palm Springs area. I have family members in Bakersfield and I decided to register because Kern County has that "awkward" marriage issue that is a lot more fun than any I've seen around the state.  Having lived in Fresno, I know what it's like to have one's home town made the butt of jokes. Having read so much here, I'd say Kern County's folks come up with stuff that's even funnier than anything Johnny Carson or Jay Leno ever said about Bakersfield. It take a sense of humor to live in such a place and I'm glad to see humor is alive and thriving in Kern County.

I just became a married man on June 17, getting hitched to the guy who has loved and cared for me for 25 years.  We got the hell out of Fresno when we had had enough of having our house shot at, our kid bullied, our home vandalized, our driveway spray painted and having police cars stop us for the horrible crime of emerging from a gay bar. 

I've been reading many of the comments here on the Californian web site and I'm delighted by the common sense and wit of the participants. I'm just here to join the fray and enjoy the commentary.

My friends call me Ray.

User Name:HusbandMaterial
Real Name:Ray Harwick
Member Since:June 22, 2008
Last Signed In:October 11, 2008
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Troopergate: "Palin abused her power" says investigator. Posted October 10, 2008
Read the Troopergate Report here Findings: 1.  For the reasons explained in section IV of this report, I find... Read More >>
McCain stops the show, tells supporter: "No ma'am. He's [Obama] a decent family man..." Posted October 10, 2008
 On the campaign trail today John McCain handed the microphone to a supporter: He just snatched the... Read More >>
McCain response to record 18.15% drop in stock market?: Ayers! Posted October 10, 2008
Stocks worldwide extended their slide even after Central Banks around the world coordinated emergency rate cuts... Read More >>

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 I wasn't surprised to read about your not getting paid for your web site work. Most people won't buy the cow if... Read More >>
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Gee, Acta. You get right to to the personal stuff.   My spouse gets social security but our main income is from... Read More >>
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Catherine, I think I'm more irritated by being called a liberal than I am all the other stuff.  I think that... Read More >>

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 I wasn't surprised to read about your not getting paid for your web site work. Most people won't buy the cow if... Read More >>
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I wasn't surprised to read about your not getting paid for your web site work. Most people won't buy the cow if they... Read More >>
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Comment From: MonicaMagdaleno

Wed Jul 9, 2008 16:05:05 PDT
Hello and thanks!=)
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