Couple across the street are always at each other. One night the cops showed up. The man was told to find somewhere to spend the night. The threat of violence was enough to keep him out of the house, even though no one went to jail. They are together again and still have loud arguments. I and neighbors hope they'll kill each other. This couple's stupidity stopped being entertainment a long time ago.

catpaw, I'm sure the cops "suggested" he leave the house for the night to avoid any further problems. They can't force him to leave, without arresting him and getting an Emergency Protective Order.

Believe it or not, most of the time neither one of the "fighting" parties calls the cops; the neighbors do. After that, it depends on what the cops find out when they get there. How many episodes of COPS have you seen where some "rule with an iron fist" joker went to jail because his old lady had a swollen eye when the cops showed up? Plenty. The woman never wants him to go to jail, of course, and will often claim that it's "her fault" - she's been conned  into thinking this way by years of intimidation  - and will then get mad at whoever called the cops for "not minding their own business."

KCSD put my daughter and her 3 children out of the house because they said her husband "needed his sleep so he could go to work".  This was about 12 years ago and that marriage ended long ago.  I never understood the reasoning behind putting three children, three and under out of the house, but that was the decision the deputies made.

I PERSONALLY DON'T UNDERSTAND THE SYSTEM THESE WOMAN GO GET THE RESTRAINING ORDERS AND TWO MONTHS LATER THERE BACK TOGETHER AND THE FIRST FIGHT THEY ARE CALLING THE COPS FOR HELP.... DO THEY NOT UNDERSTAND WHAT A RESTRAINING ORDER IS!!!

I DO LEGAL WORK AND SEE IT ALL THE TIME I TRY REALLY HARD TO EXPLAIN TO MY CLIENTS THIS IS A SERIOUS MATTER AND NOT TO TAKE IT LIGHTLY.. SO FAR I HAVE HAD TWO THAT DECIDED NOT TO FILE FOR A RESTRAINING ORDER AND THE OTHERS I SEE THEM BACK WITH THE OTHER PARTY..

My comment is people, men or women, know the system. Sometimes men will call the police because they know they will get their spouse locked up...likewise women do the same. People who act in this manner are childish and need to mature. What's worse is if there are children involved then they also get affected. Any person who calls the cops on their spouse, and have children, and don't give a second thought as to the well being of their children is a turd and extremely selfish. People need to think about the children first then their selfish ways. But then again, an educated and mannered person, would know how to act like an adult instead of attempting to play the system. Only losers pull this stunt.

We have a daughter..we raised her since she was 6 and shes now 23..4.0 in high school wanting to be in the veterinary field..shes going to college has 2 cars getting ready to get married to her child hood sweet heart in September..They are living together and maintaining their own bills etc.. She is Spanish and he is caucasian..she has no accent shes acts and speaks very intelligent.. Really dislikes the gang banger mentality ..she wants to  be a professional woman..That is a short short on her character..

Sioux......File a complaint against the scum bag .....This is wrong in so many ways. He has no right to put his hands on her. Buena Vista is a terrible place to drink and drive. The cops wait for you to pull off. I have been asked to step out of my car before when leaving BV....I stepped out. The cops asked me had I been drinking... I said nope and he let me go. They are jerks out there.

I don't like the way you put she is Spanish but she doesn't talk with an accent. Do you feel just because she is Spanish you have to paint a picture of her that she is an intelligent girl.  Do you think they target Spanish people that talk with an accent and are uneducated? It does not matter if she talks with an accent and dropped out in the 3rd grade...they violated her rights. They need to be held accountable.

Sorry if you took it wrong..I was trying to explain that she is educated and doesnt have a street gang mentality. I was afraid some people reading this would think she has been in trouble before and probablyy deserved it..I think the fact that she is spanish did enter into the officer man handling her though from all the gang violence etc these days..thats the only reason I mentioned it..she is our daughter and we lover her dearly and it really pisses us off that she was handled like this. Im mad right now so please dont start attacking my character for my misuse of prejudicial issues..Believe me Im not there..We are just very worried about how all this is going to effect her future..shes so upset she is refusing to even drive a car again Shes not a drunk ..it was a bad mistake. She said the man she hit ran up while she was still in a daze and tried grabbing her keys from the car and was fighting with and hitting her,,she was defending herself...he bent the keys when he ripped them out of the ignition and told the officer she had assaulted him..That might have started the mind set for the arrest going so badly..all these jerks picken on this tiny petite girl that was in shock from the accident..its unreal..

Sioux

I really do feel for your daughter and I am not attacking your character. I was just wondering why you used the verbiage you used.....and you explained it. You should not allow that jerk to get away with this. Kern County are professionals at retaliation so you might want to complain after her court nonsense is over. If you complain now they will railroad her in court.....just a tip.

Good Luck

I'm sure the arresting officers and the guy she hit will have a different story. I'm not saying you're wrong, just that there is more than one side here.

 Drunkin/doper drama?? oh yaaa this happens in our family all the time!!!! Thanks for your support

What a Spanish girl driving drunk.......DEPORT..DEPORT

I'm only kidding Sioux...best of luck to your daughter. 0.08 is only 2 beers and not much of a buzz........Hopefully she will learn a lesson from this and not drive when drinking.  As far as the cop being abusive well unless she has witnesses it's her word against his and hes a cop and your kids a drunk.......who do you think they are going to believe........

gube, he said she drank "some margaritas". And she weighs 115 lbs. Her BA was probably over .08.

oh ya there were a few witnesses..she was very embarrased due to him throwing her around and her bikini top kept re arranging itself for all to see. I dont know what her BA was but it still doesnt give him the right to man handle her. The emergency room has her on valium right now because she was so traumatized from the beating..I talked to a friend who was a female officer for many years and she said

From what you have described, the arrest of your daughter had nothing to do with transporting a prisoner to a hospital, ect. No doubt you are upset, but you were not there and are only going by what your daughter is telling you. Maybe she was resisting some when the officer tried to re-cuff her. Some drunks do that you know. Some people get happy when they drink, others get mean. And maybe she slammed her head into the patrol car window and caused the bruise.

I also am curious if you are upset at your daughter for putting her life in danger, and those of others, for driving under the influence of alcohol.

Maybe the officers saved her life by getting her off the road.

Puleeze the officer didnt get her off the road she ran into a van..OH gee whiz no... Im not upset that she was drinking and driving ..what kinda of a stupid statement was that..how many times have you drank away from home and driven yourself..if you say never your lying...you just never got caught..

The transporting to the hos[ital statment was to show those that UNDERSTOOD what my friend the female officer was saying was that they have to take precations even doing something as simple as that DUH!!!

Ive been reading your posts for sometime now and you never have anything nice to say to anyone..whats up ur skirt?? Oh an ya buddy Id love to thank the officer for beating the crap out of her..what kind of lame crap was that?? really loved that remark!!!..did u miss the part where if theres a female officer at the scene he has no right to touch her its up to the female officer and he should have called for one to cuff her???? He over stepped his bounds being a tuff guy ur an idiot im done here got bother some one else. Now I suppose you are going to stalk me around the blogs yakin and puking on everything I say like you do others trying to relive your days of controling your students.....I told you I was hot over this..why do you want to push my buttons??

Sioux .......... oldblue got his lunch money taken as a kid and he's never gotten over it.......

Bet he didn't Gube

Just guessing though................

how about you Chico did you get your lunch money taken away when you where a kid......................

He hasnt seen her he doesnt know her..shes a wreck..we are very worried about her..shes never been in a fight in her life..this was the first time and having it done by some one you have been taught to respect all your life was very traumatic to a young woman like her..She cant go to work and she wont go to school with her face all bruised up and swollen like it is..Like I said shes very pretty..shes even modeled for some car magazines next to trucks. So maybe you can imagine what shes going through right now. She wasnt just beaten up she feels violated..we saw her today and she was running around in circles at her place..wanted to come over here so we went to get her..then she decided she didnt want to go outside in public still acting very stressed out..I hope she calms down..

her younger brother is coming home tomorrow from a year long tour in Baghad ..we raised him as our son  too..it wasnt the home coming we had planned.

Hmm so Vanity..it was OK for you when you were younger ..like she is ..but now you are being excused for being stupid and abe to pass judgement because you are a mom and in your 30's?? Boy Im impressed with your post..I appreciate the input a real eye opener..Those without guilt may throw the first stone kinda thing..and kinda sounds like your not it.. It was a non injury accident so stop the drama..

Sioux,

Hope she gets over it.  She made a mistake and I'm sure she has learned from it. It could be worse and another person could be dead so she should really take it to heart.  Don't know if the cop was right or wrong and if the story is balanced or not but she is home and alive and so is the person she hit!  She doesn't have to live with the worst that could have happened.    Some lessons have to be done the hard way.  Who knows how many times she's done this before and never got caught.  Maybe this will end it and she won't have to suffer through something worse.   Anyhow she should be thankful she is alive for the homecoming.

I never said it was "OK" when I was younger. I said "I exercised incredibly poor judgement." BIG difference.

HAHAHAHHAHAHAHA.... mphtttt OK Im sorry ......HAHAHAHAAHAH!!!!!!!!

 Hmm now I get it..its the bikini top thing..how many kids do you have??? Didnt you read the post..She was skiing all day..OH MY GOODNESS Mr Roberts we got a live one.. Let me guess you wear a one piece and as soon as your out of the water the Tshirt goes on..

vanityfair so whats a bikini top got to do with anything............Would you rather she drove nude? I know I would but I'm a guy........... 

Oops and now shes the off topic cop..like most of the other blogs dont go off topic..we were talking about women getting beaten up so its not that far off topic just another angle..dont you need to go fix dinner for your kids or something??

vanityfair post a pic and let us decide how good you look....................if you got it flaunt it....................

Oh come on a 20 year old in a bikini is not trashy .........unless.............

now thats trashy

Umm not ur Honey...I think my wife would object to that terminology too..women that use that type of verbage are usually deeply disturbed and tend to fib online to make themselves sound more attractive..but I m not accusing you of that *grin* If Bass Lake is your claim to fame.. far be it from me to burst that bubble. You have a nice day..go spread your lovely self around..I got a bunch of people out back I need to go talk too..big ride this weekend up in the sierras and we got to load the horse trailer..YEE HAW

Hmm well GUBE...I thinkin somethin similar to the one in Green....

and vanity make sure you keep em tiny tats covered..probably not an easy thing to do up er in Bass Lake... ta ta

 "she's a non-gang-banging Spaniard"

just caught that..tsk tsk tsk...shame on you miss vane......ity..you just lost what little credibility you had ...

Gube~ how did you get my vacation photos?? LOL I do not judge folks on their looks ,how they dress or where they live.

From the story here so far, I hope your daughter heals Sioux.I am glad it was just a vehicle accident and that no one was seriously hurt. Good luck.

sioux, or is it Sue, I know of no policy by any LE agency that says male officers are not allowed to touch or handcuff a female. They can even pat them down for weapons if it has to be done right then, but it is preferred a female do it.

It is strange that a 115 lb. young woman, who is not a "fighter", would get beat up by an officer for no reason. It would be interesting to read the police report.

And gube, I never had my lunch money stolen. Most of the guys who took other people's money lunch money grew up and ended up in prison for crimes like robbery. Sound familiar? 

OldBlue or is it OldBlow...I talked to another friend of mine in the Da's office today and unfortunately the sad fact is she removed her hands from the cuffs and the officer can say what ever he wants to and succesfully get away with his crime..so next time you get arrested make sure since you have the feminine type wrists you keep them where they were placed or you too might meet with a similar fate. Sound Familiar?? Schools out Bucko...

chico hell no I don't wanna take your lunch money............that would be a sight.......a fat out of shape gube gittin trampled by a old man................lol............Plus your a right wing whacko who owns many guns.........................

I'd try to not let you get that close. (thats the treachery part  ;=)  )

I've seen your pic, big tgt but probably trouble up close! LOL!

(besides a piece of beef jerky and some hard tack would hardly be worth it!) ROTFL! 

So sioux, did your daughter tell you what REALLY happened yet?....