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bghayes - > Young, Professional and often Sarcastic -> Real Life Classes: Who Tells the Kids People are Jerks?
Real Life Classes: Who Tells the Kids People are Jerks?

Today's lectured in my US History course focused on using the Bill of Rights to win debates. I'm trying to hammer into these kids the concept that they have fundamental rights in this country and that knowledge of them in crucial.  I was talking about how in life, you are constantly in debates about truth. Whether in the classroom, with friends, enemies or other bloggers.  Being able to reference back to the Bill of Rights is always a useful tool because those laws are solidly supported.  As we were discussing the death penalty, a student asked me why this was important, that he never discussed politics.

This led me to recognize again that these kids need a class on real life.  That life is constantly a struggle for what is right and that their life only gets more complicated. I can remember as a kid thinking that adults had all the answers and only the hardcore criminals did things wrong. Each year I became older, I realized more and more that most adults mess things up along the way and no one is 100% sure they are doing everything exactly right.

I'd dig a mandatory class for students that taught the following:

1. Taxes and Bills. Kids need to understand how much it costs to live.

2. Investing. Explanation of bank accounts, stocks and options.

3. Manners: Professional dress and behavior. (Why don't we teach this?)

4. Manners: Everyday. Cell phone etiquette, tipping, and general public behavior. Everyone seems to be free range deciding what's appropriate these days.

5. Tolerance/Respect. An understanding should be mandatory that everyone is different, you do not have to like them but you have to respect them. That means non-verbal attacks, etc. (bloggers need this).

 

Any other suggestions for what kids should be taught in a Real Life Course?

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posted by bghayes on Thursday, November 1, 2007 at 10:02 AM
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posted by RoyTullis on Nov 1, 2007 at 10:55 AM
Methods of decision making.  Analysis before decision. Most have to learn it from experience with lots of bumps along the way.
posted by witbee on Nov 1, 2007 at 11:49 AM

We are teaching it to them already by the best possible method: modeling.

Taxes and Bills: They are over-taxed from birth. So they are completely de-sensitized.

Investing: A good investment is nice rims because chicks will dig them and you. Great return on your investment. Their dad bought a Prosche after his divorce and now he's dating the hottest girl in high school.

Manners:Professional dress: I wear a tie to class/work every day. Other teachers look like frat boys waking from an all night binge.

Manners: Whenever they say "Hi" they use great affection by saying "What's up, baby?" Heck, most of my students, males included, hug whenever they see each other.

Tolerance/Respect: They tatoo their girlfriends name on their neck. How much more respectful could they be?

posted by sagefever on Nov 1, 2007 at 11:55 AM

Here an oldie but a goodie:  honesty... yeah I know but I sing the words to "Impossible Dream" every night for fun.

posted by RoyTullis on Nov 1, 2007 at 11:56 AM
You are kidding I hope.
posted by RoyTullis on Nov 1, 2007 at 12:05 PM
Sage. My last comment was directed at BG. Just wanted you to know it was not you.
posted by dgrealish on Nov 1, 2007 at 12:11 PM
Most of our kids have become accustom to instant gratification.  They grow up with the idea that everything has an instant payoff.  The value of waiting needs to be taught in a real life course.  I have no idea of how to go about this, but the foreclosure rate is a perfect example of the devastating effect of " instant gratification".
posted by Baylee on Nov 1, 2007 at 12:15 PM

Proper use of the english language excluding the F word.

 

posted by Baylee on Nov 1, 2007 at 12:15 PM
And the B word.
posted by sagefever on Nov 1, 2007 at 12:19 PM
Thanks Roy~ I appreciate that..these blogs can move fast,but I hope we "get" each other enough  to avoid that kind of misunderstanding.I like to ask before I jump on a person ~most days anyway!
posted by randomfactor on Nov 1, 2007 at 02:45 PM
How about proper use of the English language *INCLUDING* both?  This is for the real world, nyet?
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