Feeling powerless
The craziness of today's life in Bakersfield and around the country. I'm upset with the way things are so out of hand, and yet every one says "It's the liberals" or, "It's the conservatives." Period. Accepting and doing nothing to make things better for everyone, not just their 'side' of the issues. "Can't we all just get along" seems to be a thought that has to be ingrained in the youngsters so that they don't grow up with this "My way is the only way" attitude I'm seeing all around me.

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dutchlady - > Feeling powerless -> Mother says she's trying to straighten out her life
Mother says she's trying to straighten out her life

 The mother of Guillermo, who was allegedly murdered by her boyfriend, says she is working on her future. "I have food in my house. As soon as I have my kids back, I'm going back to school."   What???????? This is not working on her future; this is procrastination, and being passive about doing for oneself.  Taking care of her children will be a full-time job in itself, and yet, she is waiting to get her children back from protective custody, AND THEN GOING BACK TO SCHOOL?  Who will take care of the children?  Another boyfriend?  Now is the time to be in school to further herself, when she has the free time with no children in the home, to be able to concentrate and study.  Believe me, I was a full time professional, always in college, and raising children. It is not easy; this parent needs someone to counsel her NOW, not when another tragedy happens because she might be in a school room while someone else is babysitting her other children.   GO TO SCHOOL NOW!  And hopefully, someone in the CPS is reading between the lines in her statement.  Moving forward is NOT waiting for the home to be full of children again.  

Posted in these Groups: Family & Home, Relationships
Topics: Child abuse
posted by dutchlady on Saturday, August 29, 2009 at 10:39 AM
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posted by Bandmom on Aug 29, 2009 at 01:13 PM

EXACTLY what I felt when I read that this morning!

 

posted by dutchlady on Aug 29, 2009 at 01:50 PM

Sadly, I'm sure she will NOT move forward with her life but hopefully, CPS won't let her have her children back until she has fulfilled the things needed for that to happen. I used to work with this type of situation in my professional field, and so many times children went back to homes that had yet not changed.  Some social workers feel children are better off with the parent, but when the parent talks like this, it is quite evident that welfare and please help us out are the main ingredients of the home...not conducive to raising healthy children. There are no easy answers, of course, no maps to follow.  But to protect the children, a mom's love sometimes isn't enough. When Mom picks the wrong men to be in her life, the children are better off out of the home and let Mom get on with her life, however it is. A Mom's love should include protection for the children. When it doesn't having children should not be a free ride on the Welfare train.  Bottom line..waiting to have a house full of children back from Child Protective Services  to then get an education is already a telltale sign of not doing anything for the parent nor for the children.   

posted by lanabuford on Aug 29, 2009 at 08:06 PM

So Now she has food in her house?  Big deal!   She should have had her life together before all this happened.  She can go back to school, get a job, But will she be more careful about the boyfriend she chooses/ Doubtful!

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