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Oh come now! Another one? It seems that whenever a golden child/cause of the left is called into question it is automatically a cover-up or a vast right wing conspiracy. Today it is Global Warming and it's all Dubyas fault! I wasn't aware that it was a subject that was a secret to the masses or that the media hadn't already jumped into it with both feet. It's been a media darling for the last decade, at least, and NOW there is a cover up? The government is keeping it's secrets on this subject quiet? Hell, they can't even keep secrets among the ones who like each other and now they have been able to keep some secret about such a high profile subject? The problem with global warming is that not even science is of one mind and accord as to whether man is responsible for it and what we will even be able to do about it, so now it must be a conspiracy to mislead the public. Ladies and Gentlemen..I have a secret..The public has known about the stuff for years and the debate on every aspect of it is nothing new. Each camp has had their mind made up about whole thing for some time and anything a scientist has to say beyond what is already out there isn't going to change anyones mind one way or the other(as it is with most "hot potato" subjects).

I did notice it was an environmental activist group(like those level headed folks who toss acid on and set fire to SUVs to save the planet)who brought this before a Senate committee chaired by a liberal. I guess the actual scientists in question are being held at gunpoint in a top secret facility under a Wal-Mart in Virginia. No, there are no actual persons backing up this allegation, just the usual blasting of the "chump d'jour" by another special interest group with no shortage of axes to grind. If the actual people in question are so concerned, why not "leak" the facts to their buddies at the Times(pick one)? That's how things are generally done. Then there could be a villian and a hero(just like Libby and Plame)the public could wrap their opinions around. If they feel so strongly, why not quit the Federal gravy train job they have, venture into the real world, write a book, go on Larry King, Oprah and the other "Oh My God(even if they don't believe in Him), You can't be serious" and the "See, We told you so" book tours instaed of having the usual whackos doing their bidding? I mean, if big tobacco can have it's whistleblowers, why not government employed scientists?

No, this is an agenda driven fishing expedition aimed at "The New Kids On The Block" to get them to toss some bucks and exposure(possibly one in the same?)to the "envirojoes". The proof of that is at the end of the piece(the part the media bets that nobody will ever get to)where it states, quite plainly, that there is already an effort(on both sides) to gather thousands of non classified documents(mostly e-mails)surrounding ONE 2003 EPA report that MAY have been less than accurate in its findings. Gee, I'll bet THAT has never happened with any other administrations(anybody remember the Clinton administration blowing off the Kyoto treaty? I do)on the subject. These groups count on alarmist reactions to such matters to stay in the limelight and keep their agendas in the minds of those who tend to react instead of consider, and the sappy, scoop scrounging media are, for the most part, a willing and ignorant accomplice.

Is there a global climate change occurring? It would appear to the case, but so far, it has been impossible to determine if it has anything to do with mankind, or if it is another natural planetary shift like the ones that have occurred hundreds of times in Earth's history without even the existence of mankind or fossil fuels. We simply haven't been around long enough to know. Perhaps in a few hundred years we will know one way or the other, but not yet. I think the folks in the mid west would challenge the idea that things are warming up. The fact is that many places on the planet are getting colder over the last decade, so who can say what is happening or why. We(mankind)can be very arrogant when it comes to thinking we have all the answers when we have only been here a geological second.

I'm not saying that we shouldn't be keeping an eye on things, reducing our emmissions and looking into alternative fuel sources, but let's make sure we actually know what's going on before we start making accusations against mankind and administrations. The liberals had better beware of the environmental extremists they so readily throw thier hats in with lest they be the next ones accused of vast conspiracies when we start to realize there may not be much we can do about this problem anyway.

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posted by motopoet on Wednesday, January 31, 2007 at 04:33 PM
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I love Motocross and Supercross. Most people have no concept of what an exciting form of motorsport it really is. Most have never even seen it on television as it is not a true mainstream sport, even though it is light years ahead of what it was just five years ago. A few of the Supercross races during the season(16 events in all)are now shown live on Speedchannel, another few are shown on the same day on ABC and the rest are shown next day. The outdoor Motocross Nationals are shown the following week. It is hard to get most people to understand how difficult and dangerous it is as most tend to equate racing with a casual put in the foothills on their old Honda 175. It's one of those things that you have to do to understand.

One of the things I do enjoy is being involved in friends(or strangers)first exposure to an event in person. I have never seen anyone not come away impressed or say thay didn't enjoy themselves, especially at a Supercross race. Supercross is raced in a stadium(it was orginally called "Stadium Motocross")on a man made track in front of sold out crowds. This past week Bev and I treated our long time Harley riding buddies, Jill and Elgie, along with Bev's Sister to their first such event at round three od the series held at Anaheim in Angels Stadium. There is nothing like walking onto the terrace and seeing the track out there under the lights waiting for the pro's to put it to use.

We arrived about an hour later than we had planned due to traffic hitches and got there just in time to get into the pits(pit passes come with the tickests)before they stopped letting people in. I had never been in teh pits this late and it looked as if most people thought the pits CLOSED at 5:30, but that's just when they stopped letting people in! There were almost no people in the paddock and we were able to get around unhindered by the massive crowds that usually accompany a trip to the pits. We were able to walk right up to deserted factory rigs and talk to and take pix with a few of the stars you would usually have to wait in long lines to see and they certainly wouldn't have time to BS or take pix. Pro-Circuit Kawasaki's owner, Mitch Payton was having some grub but took the time to pose for a pic. His young new star, Ryan Villopoto snapped a shot with my wife, one of his biggest fans. I ran into retired superstars like Jimmy Button and Sebastian Tortelli just standing around and had short conversations with both, but the high point of the evening for me was seeing my all time favorite rider, Honda's Kevin(K-Dub)Windham, as he was strolling from the 250F teams rig to his own. I just said "Hey, K-Dub"! like I had known him forever. He came out to where we were and I had him sign my wifes shirt(I rarely get autographs, but hey, It was K-Dub!), told him he was my fav and asked if he'd take a pic with us, which he did. I wished him luck and we headed for our seats.

A supercross race is not just a race. It is an Event. There are interviews, videos on the big screen, t-shirt guns thumping shirts into the upper decks and scantily clad women pushing all sorts of industry related goodies, not to mention the lovely Erin Bates(whos autograph I got at the Glen Helen National last fall)doing her pre race track facts and interviews. After the National Anthem and Color Guard ceremony the laser light show and anticipatory music starts as the top riders are introduced with a smal fireworks show following each introduction and that rider doing some trick, walking down through the crowd or just waving to the fans(all of this is up on the big screen) until it gets down to the top three in points. This year that was James Stewart and Chad Reed. Ricky Carmichael was actually second in points, but didn't race this round as he is only doing six of the rounds in this, his farewell tour. After the intros were done, Chad and James took a "hotlap" whipping their bikes off the big triples. Our frind, Jill, gasped in amazement never having seen such antics on a bike.

The racing commenced shortly thereafter with the 250F class, which is made up of the younger up and comers who haven't graduated to the premier 450F class, going off with it's two heat races(the first nine riders advance to the main), then the premier class and it's two heats followed by the Last Chance Qualifier in each class(four to the main in the 250 class, two to the main in the 450s). During intermission they stage the KTM junior SX race in which kids in the 5-8 yr old range who are picked at random from pre entries race identically prepared KTM50s around an abbereviated track in front of a delerious crowd. Can you imagine being that age and having 45,000+ fans screaming for you? Once that is done the main events get underway. This year Pro-Circuit's Ryan Villopoto devestated the 250 competition, much to my wifes delight. In the main premier class it was James Stewart who had to race past a determined privateer, Nick Wey, but eventually put on an amazing display of riding to win by a 20 second margin.

Our sister and our friends had a blast and James Stewart has a brand new superfan in Jill. She whooped and hollered every time he hit the triples and cleared the step up in our section. Bev and I had our usual blast(I have been to countless SX races since my first in 1975, Bev started going with me ten years ago)and we all left satisfied that a good time was had by all. I can't wait till my next race, but more than that, I hope Supercross' newest fans can't wait till THEIR next event!

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I am trying to post about last weekends race, but the site won't load any pix...Is there a problem with that right now, oh wonderous wizards of the site?

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My Mom(SurferGrandma)and I were invited by the Californian to do a spot on the blogs and the generalities of why we do it. It was pretty cool and we had some good laughs, met some fine people and got our 15 minutes. As I was driving home I got to thinking a little more about all this blogging stuff and what it's all about for me. I can't, nor do I wish to, speak to anyone elses reasons for blogging as I am certain not everyone does it for the same reasons. One of the things Mom and I talked about in the interview was politics being the majority topic on the site. It's true, and there's nothing wrong with that, but for me, it's about sharing the parts of my life that I find interesting. Sometime politics slips in, sometimes it doesn't. I am political only where politics itself is concerned. That is to say that the majority of MY life and conversations have nothing to do with the stuff. I feel the way I feel about things political and nobody on the other side will ever convince me to change. You see, there was a time I was a liberal, but that is fodder for another post.

I would rather talk about my kids, grandkids and the exploits of my family than about the new majority. I'd rather talk about the last poker tournament I played in than the last time I voted. I'd rather talk about my last jam session than last nights news, and I'd rather talk about motocross than just about anything else in the world. There are enough people out there who's lives center on politics and causes to fill a medium sized country and I am happy to say I am not among them! I do enjoy offering my opinions on causes and matters political, but I quickly tire of the rhetoric on both sides and am soon ready to share about my new grandsons latest smile or one of my Harley advetures or whatever, and I can think of no better place to do that than right here on a blogsite comprised of mostly local bloggers. We argue, debate and seem to exasperate each other at times, but it also seems that as we wear on each other, we grow on each other. My recent yakitty-yak with Mattloch and our ten year bet, arguing with ProgressivePete or Hardliner, not to mention the ones with whom I generally agree(or they with me). I'd still like to have a meet and greet with them all. Just because we don't see eye to eye doesn't mean we don't have a certain amount of respect for each other for sticking to our guns and that we can't break bread with each other. I don't care for it when posters make it personal, but that is the exception to the rule, and in any case, the folks who tend to do that would probably not take the time to come meet the rest of us who understand that differing views is what this country is really all about. It's what got us going and what keeps things in balance, even if sometimes out of whack.

Bakersfield is not a perfect place, but it is OUR place. I enjoy reading and talking about the things that go on around here, things going on elsewhere that affect us, and just seeing what the local folks think about whatever it is that tickles their fancy. The majority of posts may be about the new, old and whatever majority and who's who in Washington and the various capitols, but there is plenty to read about that has nothing to do with that and I really hope that as many of us who make sure we read and respond to the political stuff at least read about the other stuff. I don't always comment on the other subjects, but I enjoy reading about them nonetheless. Thanx to you all and to the Californian for giving me something to look forward to other than the usual blah afternoon TV. I only wish I had more time to dedicate to blogging!....Or do I?...:o)

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posted by motopoet on Monday, January 29, 2007 at 05:28 PM
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I read today that women, in increasing numbers, no longer need men to have a full and satisfying life. Three cheers for the women! I am serious. I understand that feeling(from the other side of the fence)and have a great amount of respect for those who decide to go it alone. BUT...If they choose to go it alone, it should be on thier own. If a woman makes the choice from the beginning of her adulthood to do that, fine. If a woman decides that her marriage is isn't working and wants to bail for her own reasons and not reasons her man can control or change, she should have to sign away her rights to anything that is his, including his money. Sure, split the stuff you accumulated and the equity in the house, but there should be no alimony involved and no going after anything she had no hand in aquiring. In such cases, "irreconcilable differences" should not be allowed. There should have to be a specific reason she is leaving and one that can be proven and corroborated. If there are children involved, child support should be fair, not the raping it is by the court system we have today. I found it interesting that the fedaral government said my kids only needed $3,500 a year(each, my standard deduction)), but the DA Child Support division thinks it took $7,800 a year(each) to support them(I now have custody and receive NOTHING from their mother)!

If there are no reasons other than "she needs her space to pursue her individuality" involved, alimony should be taken off the table, no matter how long the couple was together. It's not the guys fault a woman decides she wants something different.

As a man who paid $500 a month(on top of the $650 Ch. Sup.)to a woman who never worked or made any attempt to contribute to the home before she decided I was too demanding for asking her to do things like get up before noon, wash the clothes while I worked two jobs(I worked part time for a small Railroad signal company in the mid 90s)to feed her voracious appetite for spending(her food bill wasn't cheap either!), and make dinner after I had worked a 16 hour day, I know from whence I speak!

 

I wonder why it is that when a woman wants to stay single or bocome single she is exploring her indepenence, but when a man wants the same thing, he is being a selfish, insensitive butthead. I, myself, enjoy for the most part, the confines of a relationship(as my three marriages attest), but some guys aren't that way. I have heard guys I know who chose never to marry or become involved in a commited relationship called all sorts of unflattering names! I just think they are exercising good judgement and being honest with themselves and those around them. Women who make the same decision are seen as strong, independent and forward thinking, and I couldn't agree more, just make it the same for the guys who make that decision.

As for guys who decide they are not cut out for relationships after they have become involved in one, they too are ostracized. They are slapped with some societal moniker associating them with smelly parts of the human anatomy and they certainly will receive no monetary compensation from a partner who may or may not earn more than they do, and they don't deserve it. I just think the playing field should be level when it is a woman who makes that decision. You go, you go without compensation or aid. Life is an expensive proposition and it should notbe paid for by someone you left for selfish reasons.

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posted by motopoet on Thursday, January 18, 2007 at 06:27 PM
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 The title says it all. Who cares about the do-gooders, indeed. Certainly not the homeless people that they are always trying to help. An article in the paper today spoke of the buildings opened at the fairgrounds to keep the homeless out of the cold. It was such a nice, caring gesture that a whole EIGHT people showed up Friday night as the temperature dropped to near 20 degrees(it actually got down to 18 at my house in the northwest). Fifty or so were expected Saturday night though. FIFTY? FIFTY? WOW! Stop the presses! Fifty of the..well..however many homeless are alleged to live in Bakersfield(albeit, not in homes). I would imagine that is a very small percentage though, but I could have told you that when I first heard about the buildings being offered.

To steal a line from Glenn Beck, "Here is what I know". The homeless are not interested in your help. They are perfectly happy to wander wherever it is their turf has them wandering, and all they require from people is CASH. They really don't care about you giving them a cheeseburger(or a veggie burger if you are concerned with their health)or a job mowing your lawn for which you will make them dinner. They require CASH. They can't use a burger or a lasagna to barter for smokes, booze or dope, and believe me, that is all they want. They don't want a place to sleep if they cant smoke, drink and get high there. They don't want you to feed or house them, they want you to support their habits without them having to do anything in return for your favor.

These people have spent a good deal of their lives and energy figuring out how to live the way they want to live without having to be responsible for anything. They know how to exist in extreme conditions without having to answer to anyone to do it. They don't want to take care of anything or anyone. They don't want free housing or free food if it comes with any rules. The recent closure of the "mini city" for homless in LA should have proven that to anyone who cares to listen. Go to the old 99/180 interchange in downtown Fresno where they have a small tent city set up. These people exist in their own little culture, and they don't like interlopers. You give those people a house or an apartment and let them do what they like to live there and it will be completely thrashed in a very short time. They don't want to clean house or cook food, they want to get high, get drunk, and smoke. It is all they think about and they don't care what anyone thinks about that.

You see them sometimes holding signs saying they will work for food. Well, I know that is untrue in 99.99% of the cases. What they want is for you to just give them a couple of bucks to "be nice". They bank on the fact that most of us wouldn't have one of them anywhere near our homes, so we will give them money to asuage our guilt(well, not mine!) for having the means to do what we wish. The difference is that most of us wish to have a nice home, a car, a job and the money to enjoy lifes pleasures, which to us is a vacation or a motorcycle, and we shouldn't feel guilty about being responsible adults who have chosen to have a rational set of priorities in our lives. To them life has two pleasures and two priorities; getting high and smoking. Sleeping on a bed of newspapers in an alley is fine with them because they are not sleeping because they want to get rest, they are sleeping because they have passed out from too much stuff or because they have been up for a few days. I have, on many occasions, had to either drive around people passed out in the middle of the right of way(the roads along the tracks)or get out and roust them so they can move.

I know what I am talking about because I have worked my entire adult life in the company of these people. You can tell one of them who tries to bum money or smokes from you to go F--- themselves and they don't even get mad. They just walk off, and the next time you the person, they will ask you again. If I am in a better and/or giving mood, I may even toss them a couple of bucks, especially if they are being honest with me by saying they just need a drink or a pack of smokes. I have had my friends and co-workers say I am a sucker to give them money because they are just going to get high with it. My response is that, once I give them that cash, it's none of my business what they do with it.  I work for the railroad and have an office at Baker and Sumner. We actually have names for the regulars around there..Skipper, the Judge, Big Bertha, the Professor, and a few others. They have been hanging around there for ten to twenty years, in some cases. I will also say, in their defense, that the vast majority of these people are completely harmless. They don't want to hurt or harrass anyone not in their culture because they don't want to go to jail for the same reasons they don't want your housing..Too many rules for nothing more than three hots and a cot.

Sure, there are people out there who, for whatever reason, have lost a home to problems beyond their control, but I assure you, they are few and far between and they are the ones out mowing lawns and doing odd jobs to get back on their feet and you won't see them hanging out at Baker and Kentucky or in Central Park. The vast majority of the homeless live the way they do because they CHOOSE to live that way and they don't want you bugging them to become responsible, productive members of society, because they have no intention of doing so.

So, to all the do-gooders who think they can change the world by offering these people comfort, you are wasting your time. Your efforts are much better spent helping out a young single mother or father, or a low income family with a sick child. In other words, someone who will actually appreciate what you are trying to do.

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posted by motopoet on Sunday, January 14, 2007 at 03:22 PM
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Eliminating term limits(Venezuela has a six year term at this time)only saves him the trouble of terrorizing voters and fixing counts in the next election(or having his competition disappear!)and is certainly a bad sign for those who may re-think their position on him next time after having voted for him last time. I suppose one good thing is that he will not have a communist power such as the old USSR to back him up as Castro(who he seems to want to become)did when he pulled the same rug out from under the Cuban people. The cash he is using to expand his strongarm tactics comes solely from oil revenues, which you can bet the Venezuelan people will see less and less of as his power base increases. He is already in bed bed with Putin, Castro and Ahmadinejad, the only one missing is Kim Jong Il. What nice people to make it a point to associate with. Sounds like a new "Axis of Evil" if you ask me. Cavez is interested in only one thing; Chavez. Like all the psychos who preceeded him, his interest in the people he supposedly represents is a very temporary thing lasting just long enough to ensure his total control over them before tossing their concerns and human rights aside.

I am no geo-political seer, I simply understand history and there has never been a more true cliche than "Those who do not learn from the past are doomed to repeat it". The writing is on the wall. In a decade or two the U.N. will be asking the USA to help the "poor, oppressesed people" of Venezuela. Maybe not in a military sense, but we will be the ones who will be expected to run to the aid of the very people who put this guy in power in the first place and asked to do so by the very orginazations and politicos who told us to "mind our own business" in the first place.

It's probably a good thing that Venezuela is so far from America that getting here is to big an undertaking for those who would try to raft here as they do from Cuba and Haiti. It's probably a good bet that the next influx of nationals will be from Venezuela. It will cause raging debates at that time that could have been stopped at this time with a little foresight from the people down there and a little reality from the people up here.

Sometime back I wrote a post about my concerns with socialism, and in particular, with the rantings of Hugo Chavez, the the self proclaimed savior of Venezuela. A few people rushed to his defense, deriding my post as uninformed, and speaking of the good Chavez is doing for Venezuela. I pretty much stated that he is just another two bit dictator, and this past week, he took a couple of steps to prove me right. The nationalization of Venezuala's telecommunications and utilities and the introduction of legislation to eliminate presidential term limits. Nationalizing business sectors has always been one of the first steps leading to dictatorships. Today it's phones and power, tomorrow it will be the oil companies as this megalomaniac cruises past socialism and right into full blown communism.
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It's odd how things come to pass. Just when you think something is bound not to happen, it happens, and it's usually for the good. I have lost count of the times I thought I was stuck with the short end of the stick only to have the long end fall right into my hands(or right on top of my head), or have the door to a great opportunity shut in my face just as another door to an even better opportunity open in it's place. This is one of those times. In a couple of posts I have lamented the fact that I would not be involved much in my new grandson's life. My daughter lived in Vegas sharing a place with her Mom, and her fiance' was whisking them off to, most likely Germany, as soon as his rehabilitation is complete(he was severely wounded in Iraq). Those facts would keep them far away for the first couple of years of my grandson's life.

Enter fate. December 28th I got a call from my daughter saying she just couldn't deal with her Mom any longer and asked if she could come home(she lived with me most of her life) till her and Joe(her affianced)got married in January and she could get a place here in town. I won't get into the reasons behind the problems between her and her Mom, but it was upsetting to hear her so upset having just had a baby and me not there to be able to do anything to help. The only immediate problem was that the truck was in the shop grtting tires and the van was in the shop for repairs so the trip would have to wait a day.

 

We retrieved both cars that afternoon, and early last Friday I headed for Vegas for the first time in my life without the intention of gambling. No problem. There was no doubt I was coming home a winner! We loaded all we could into the truck and hightailed it out of town! With the Vegas skyline receeding in the mirrors I stuck my hand back into the car seat and felt my grandson grab my finger for the first time. I cooed and blathered the way I did when my children were that small. Although I really wished that things hadn't deteriorated between my daughter and her Mom, I was overjoyed to have them coming home. My daughter insisted to her Mom that this would be better since they wouldn't be arguing all the time, which I am sure is right, but I doubt that made Nannette feel any better right then.

My Mom had been bummed that her first great-grandchild wasn't going to in her life much either and I could sense the excitement in her voice when I called the night before I went to tell her waht was going on. I called her from Edison and told her I would be home shortly and she said she'd meet me at the house. When she got there she just dropped all of her stuff in the floor and went for the baby. She didn't even leave the bedroom for half an hour(or put the boy down!). We took pix and talked of how much he looked like his Mom when she was an infant. We did all the baby talk stuff that so may people find annoying when it is someone else's kid being coddled. When he started to cry, Mom(my Mom)got to feed him. She looked so happy. It was awesome.

It's so cool having him right here(ok,,it's great to have Cassie home too!). Cassie, Ariel and I went shopping for "stuff" on Sunday, getting, among other things, a sling and a glider rocker. His little aunts(my two youngest girls)are fascinated with him even thogh Ariel, the youngest, is still afraid to hold him. Bev and I have no such problems. Poor Bev has been sick and unable to hold him and I know she wants to, but doesn't want to take any chances. We probably hold him more than his Mom would like, but that's tough! Soon enough they will be off to wherever their lives take them and we will not have the pleasure of grabbing him up anytime we like. He is starting to look around and react to the sounds of peoples voices, his eyes are getting brighter and he is focusing on the world around him. What a cool thing to get to go through from a different perspective than that of a parent.

So, as a believer that everything happens for a reason, this door has opened and I was able to walk through and enjoy the gifts on the other side. This door will close when Joe, Cassie and Aidan leave for Germany. It will suck, but maybe the closing of that door will open the one that will take us on a family vacation to Europe in a couple of years. Who knows? All I know is that, right now, my Daughter and grandson are here, and I am not going to squander that time and the chance to bond, as much as I can, with Aidan.

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