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"Hurry here, hustlin' there. No one's got the time to spare. Money's tight, nothin's free. Won't somebody come and rescue me"? from "Crossfire" by Stevie Ray Vaughn. "I just don't have the time"...I have noticed myself saying that less and less lately. I have actually written two post on the subject of being busy, and I am, but not so busy that I can't take the time to reflect on the good things or relax with family and friends. I don't need to be so busy all of the time, I just end up rushing some things because I don't pay enough attention to others. That is going to stop in my life. Jeff Foxworthy said in a recent interview that we have "filled up every minute with something these days". Where we used to use time driving in a car to think or listen to a favorite piece of music, we now conduct business or family affairs or just mindlessly chat on a cell phone from the minute we back out of the driveway till the minute we pull back in. What happened to calling someone when we got where we were going? I know people who call their SPOUSES on the way home from work and talk to them all the way home. Hey honey....I'll see you when you get here, OK? Let's save something to talk about over dinner! How about using driving time to actually drive?! The new hands free cell phone law wasn't passed as a fashion statement! No, talking and driving aren't always mutually beneficial, and what about texting?..Are you kidding me? Then there are the people using laptops in cars. MY GOD! Your home and office both have computers, isn't that enough? From dusk till dawn, it seems that so many people just never turn technology as well as their business off for a few minutes. I see SUV's full of kids with a soccer Mom or Dad at the wheel on a cell phone that they never put down as they go through a palm pilot to see what they have to do next. People in line at stores and banks rudely yammering away as a clerk tries in vain to get a transaction completed with people(namely ME)in line behind them as they lose track of what is going on in the midst of a conversation about who knows what. It drives me crazy. If I am doing something and my cell rings, I will either tell them to call me back or, as in most cases, just not answer until I am finished with whatever I am doing. Every single minute seems to be filled with tasks or calls with no breaks, and now an entire generation is being raised on fast food, microwave dinners and with cell phones, i-pods and laptops plugged into some orifice at all times. Why not? Mom and Dad do it. Mom and Dad are so busy with both working twelve hours a day then running kids to myriad functions that there is simply no time to actually cook dinner. I may be guilty of the girls and I eating on TV trays, but we are eating a homecooked meal unless I am just not in the mood to cook, which doesnt happen often and I am a single parent! If this generation aren't eating homecooked meals, how will they know how to cook for the next generation? Another thing that society seems to have forgotten how to do is pace themselves, slow down and calm down. Everyone seems to be in such a hurry to get where they are going as they are plugged in to technology. I regularly see, in the course of a day driving around town, a dozen or more red light runners. I see people dashing around railroad crossing gates with a phone in their ear and I see them speeding through school zones and two lights later, I am right next to them again. Hey, wherever you are going will still be there in five minutes, which is probably more time than you will save driving like that across town. I see women putting on make-up, guys reading the sports section, and people eating breakfasts, all while driving. Come on people. I mean really, get up a half an hour earlier and stop trying to multitask at the wheel! Advertising and TV shows don't help much either. With the possible exception of Corona commercials, everyone is always busy doing something while plugging the product or service. They are too busy with whatever they are doing to look the camera, and by extension, me, in the eye when they are talking. That bothers me. I remember when Law & Order first came on TV. In the show intro all the guys(the two ADA's and the two cops)slowly walked down the courthouse halls in a seemingly relaxed conversation. Today the cast would have to be running to go any faster down the same hallway. What's up with that? I get tired just watching them! It bothers me. What's the hurry? Do they need to go smoke or something or is it the last case of the day? One of the things I love about riding the Harley is that I can't be bothered by anyone while I am riding. My cell phone is in my windshield pouch and I cant hear it ring and wouldn't get it out or pull over if I did. I don't have to go fast to get where I am going. I like to chill and look around. I like to feel the freedom I have on the bike and not have it interferred with by something that will wait till the next time I stop. I don't have to go fast because I am never really in a hurry on the bike. If I gas it I do so because I want to get some adreneline going by blasting a few curves, but it's never because I feel the need to hurry. I have started, over the last few months, making a point to slow down and not allow others or myself to impose time constraints on my life. I get up early enough to do what I need to do at home or I go to the coffee shop and read the paper, eat and maybe write a blog in my composition book to later put here(like I did with this one). I don't need to multitask or make a slalom race of Rosedale Highway traffic. I have generally spoken with anyone I needed to while on the conference call and have no need to stick my phone in my ear like the drivers on either side of me. I like the slower pace at which I have been living life and I hope my kids notice it and take it to heart. They see me relaxing on the couch, watching TV, playing my guitars and cooking dinner. They see me taking small trips to get away from work and they notice I am a little more mellow and don't lose my composure so quickly or for as long when I do lose it. I hope they can pass the example on to their friends now and their families later. If one person who reads this makes some small changes in their routine to alleviate the stresses involved in always trying to "keep up", I will have written a successful piece.
This is the guy I voted for twice. I am not a man who lives with regrets in any area of my life. Regrets are for the weak and the pitiful, of which I am neither, I simply take what I learn from mistakes and apply that knowledge to future decisions, hopefully avoing the same mistake more than once. Bush isn't running again and that is a good thing. I admire him for the right things he has done in the face of the certainty that he would be ostracized no matter what decision he made, but he has also left me disappointed, and in some cases, disillusioned with the direction in which he led my beloved country. I can't put it any better than Jeff Jacoby does in this piece, so here it is..and no, I didn't ask the Globe's permission! Remember George W. Bush? He was the president who warned in 2002 that Iran and North Korea were part of an "axis of evil, arming to threaten the peace of the world." On his watch, he vowed, the United States would "not permit the world's most dangerous regimes to threaten us with the world's most destructive weapons."pledged at his second inauguration to support "democratic movements and institutions in every nation and culture, with the ultimate goal of ending tyranny in our world." He let it be known that the truculence of rogues and dictators would not be indulged. "Some," he said pointedly, "have unwisely chosen to test America's resolve -- and have found it firm."posed a stark choice to the sponsors of jihadist violence -- "You are either with us, or you are with the terrorists" -- where is he now? And, more important, where is the foreign policy he once stood for?Ayman Nour rots in an Egyptian jail, Washington continues to send $1.8 billion in aid each year to the brutal regime of Hosni Mubarak. The administration restored full diplomatic relations with Moammar Khadafy's Libya, stopped designating it a sponsor of terror, and even invited the Libyan foreign minister to the White House. But it has forsaken Fathi el-Jahmi, Libya's foremost democratic dissident, who has spent years in Khadafy's dungeons for daring to advocate pluralism and free speech.Weekly Standard cover story on Condoleezza Rice's record as secretary of state, Stephen Hayes notes that six years after Bush vowed to keep Iran and North Korea from going nuclear, "North Korea is a nuclear power and Iran is either on the brink . . . or making substantial progress." Despite a "seemingly endless series of multilateral negotiations" aimed at neutralizing the two dictatorships, Pyongyang and Tehran have grown more, not less, provocative. "And in each case," Hayes writes, "the State Department has gone out of its way to avoid dealing with these provocations lest they jeopardize our diplomacy." Bush was the leader who Whatever became of him? That president who in the wake of Sept. 11 For some time now it has been apparent that the Bush Doctrine -- with the signal exception of Iraq -- didn't survive the Bush presidency. Notwithstanding the president's heartfelt words about supporting democratic reformers, for example, dissidents and freedom-seekers have largely been forgotten. "When you stand for your liberty," Bush told the world's prisoners of conscience in 2005, "we will stand with you." Yet while the brave democrat So it has gone, in one country after another. In Russia, in Saudi Arabia, in China, the Bush administration's commitment to liberty and democratic reform has subsided into little more than lip service. The principled "freedom agenda" Bush championed so ardently has evaporated. In its place is the old "realist" agenda he had sworn to overhaul: stability, business-as-usual, stand-by-your-(strong)man. And what about those dangerous regimes that were seeking the world's most destructive weapons? In a dispiriting
The Bush Doctrine was clear: Any regime aiding terrorists or other enemies of the United States would pay a severe price. Yet when North Korea was caught providing nuclear technology to Syria, the State Department wanted the news kept secret -- for fear, writes Hayes, that public disclosure of North Korea's proliferation might ruin negotiations. When he asked Rice what price Iran has paid for arming and training the Iraqi insurgents who kill US troops, she replied vaguely that "there are lots of consequences" but mentioned only the capture of an Iranian paramilitary commander in Irbil 18 months ago. "Well," she said, when pressed on whether she would negotiate with Iran even as it foments terrorism, "we've said we would talk about everything, all right." Back in 2000, Rice faulted the Clinton administration for being so obsessed with the trees of diplomacy that it repeatedly missed the forest of US national interest. "Multilateral agreements and institutions should not be ends in themselves," she wrote in an essay for Foreign Affairs. Now, alas, she presides over an all-too-Clintonian foreign policy, one in which negotiations and agreements and deal-making outweigh actual improvement and change. From North Korea to the Palestinian Authority to the United Nations, the principles of the Bush Doctrine have been forgotten. "We have gone," one State Department official sadly tells Hayes, "from a policy of preemption to a policy of preemptive capitulation." Is that to be the epitaph of Bush's foreign policy?
A new tax to lower gas prices? Please tell me they are joking! As the senate grilled the heads of Americas largest oil companies as to why prices are so high and what they intend to do about it, they hung thinly veiled threats (probably culled from Obama's speech which he stole from Hillary about the very same tax) of a new "windfall profits" tax over their heads. Is there anyone who actually believes that the oil companies are afraid of such a threat? Is there anyone who actually believes such a tax would have a lowering effect on the price of oil? Americans have already proven they are willing to bite the bullet and pay the price, even as they cut consumption, but I say to you now, the price of gas is going nowhere but up no matter what taxes are imposed on oil companies and We The People will, once again be the ones who bear the brunt of another tax imposed in the wake of another government head hunt so it will appear that they are trying to help We The People. Big Oil(or Big anything else, for that metter)will not be the ones who eat the losses brought about by new taxes. We The People, will eat that cost. Increasing or creating a new tax as a punitive measure is not only misguided, dangerous and short sighted, it is probably unconstitutional, but when has that ever stood in the way of the government, either side, from imposing their vision of justice or law. Come on people, taxes are NOT the answer. Hillary and Obama did their stumping for such a tax with promises of spending the revenues on new social programs, but we all know that the pork barrels will be filled long before the fine print is dry and whatever is left will go to shrink the Federal deficit, if that even happens. Even if this silly tax should be ratified, it would be decades before a dime of it was spent on anything other that the status quo. Anyone who reads my ranting regularly knows what I believe will have a lowering effect on prices, so I won't go into it again.
I do not like Hillary Clinton. I disagree with 99.99% of everything that falls from her megalomaniac driven piehole. I believe she is a socialist who would like to see everyone(with the exception of her and her family)in America in the same boat. Her ideas genuinely frighten me as do most short sighted ideas in any arena. She has proven herself to be a liar, or at the very least, an imbellisher, and a hypocrite not to mention wielding double standards like a bronze shield. Facts are an afterthought to her. Truth is a trivial matter better left to those of less importance. She is arrogant and condescending and I think she would be a disaster that would make the Carter and Dubya administrations look like a walk in the park. That being said, she is getting boned by the media and the Obama camp. There was a time, very recently, that I was content to sit back and let her and Obama drive each other into the dirt and laugh all the way to the poll booth in November, laugh as I waited in the line to get to the Republican side of the aisle to vote for McCain, on whom I am not all that hot, but at least he could still stand, then chuckle as I cast my vote. But fair is fair and crap is crap no matter who is under the pile, and Hillary is definately under the pile right now. There was a time when I thought Obama was fresh and invigorating, even though I despised his politics and would never vote for anyone that liberal. I thought he was different and really had a new way of looking at things. I was wrong. Dead wrong. He is a political hack of stupendous proportions, just like all the rest of the Beltway Buttholes. He has taken an elitist approach to his campaign in more ways than one, but one is all I will focus on in this piece and that one thing is his demanding that anything HE decides is off limits should actually be off limits. His pastor, his wife, his middle name, etc. Now he(along with many other Hillary haters in the media and Washington) has decided what facts on the past can and cannot be used. In this case, RFK. I listened to the Hillary clip and what I heard was her pointing out that it was JUNE that the race should be focused on. She didn't invoke RFK's assasination in a way I saw, even remotely, that was untoward or self serving. She brought it up as a reference to JUNE. That is a month, not a sacred cow. She said it in the same sentence in which she invoked the name of her Husband to bring attention to the fact that JUNE is the California primary and that was when Bill locked up the delegates he needed. That it happened in the same month in the same primary in which RFK was assasinated was the point, not that people should think of her when they think of RFK. I saw Kieth Olberman's tirade on the clip and had to laugh(he needs to go back to ESPN, but they wouldn't have anything to do with him for sure these days), but when I saw that the entire media had taken that ball and was running out of the stadium with it, I was sad and mad. It is obvious to even the most uninformed politico now that the media has taken sides in this primary fight. They have been doing it for a hundred years in general elections, but now they are picking sides within sides in the primaries and they aren't even trying to hide it! I used to think that Hillary's was the most dangerous position, but Obama is starting to look, more and more, like a facist and the media are eating it up in their bid to squash Hillary, who was their sweetheart during her runs for the Senate. They say you should never turn your back on a tail wagging dog and I say Hillary is learning that lesson the hard way now. She has won the popular vote and all the big states in her party's primaries and will still likley lose the bid for the nomination through what I see as crap. After all her ballyhooing in the 90's about conspiracies, maybe this time she really is in the middle of one! I still don't think either of the democrats have a chance at actually winning in November, but as I said..Fair is Fair and if I have to defend someone with whom I disagree to point that out, I will..and I have. I just don't get it. I don't understand mean people. It is just too easy to be friendly and fun, entertaining and cordial. I won't say that I never argue or jump down someone's throat when it is called for, but I am, in essence, a pretty nice guy. I enjoy people. I enjoy making them comfortable in my presence and I like to make people laugh. When you are my close family or true friend there is nothing I possess that you cannot have if you need it, and some of my friends and I disagree vehemently in some areas but are able to rise above that where our friendship is concerned. The same goes for family. I have been married three times and involved in one long term relationship, and with the exception of wife #2, I get along well with them all. Just because things don't work out the way we thought they would is no reason to harbor ill will, so I don't. Recent posts on this board became extremely personal and vile, and for the first time, I reported a violation. I think everyone knows to what I speak. As I sit here wondering what possesses some people to just plain be mean, I wonder if I have ever sounded that way. I really hope not. I don't dislike anyone on this site and hold no grudges no matter what we have argued about in the past. I argue on this site regularly with many of you folks, but I have always enjoyed meeting and speaking with all those who have attended the meet n greets no matter how we have gone at it in the past. Randomfactor and I are regular nemisis' here on Bako blog, but I know him to be friendly and a man of his word. I may disagree with most of what he has to say, but I respect him in anycase and that is only one example. I cannot imagine being mean for the sake of argument to anyone here, and if I ever come off like that I sincerely hope someone on the site calls me on it. I may be sarcastic and cocky, but I strive never to be rude. It is simply uncalled for. This is not a forum to air personal vendettas, grudges and fights. There have been instances where parties involved in divorces have used this forum to air their dirty laundry, and it really got under my skin. If you have something you want to say to someone involving personal matters, say it to their face or shut the hell up. I am afraid of no one, but even that doesn't mean I am going to get in the face of everyone with whom I have a personal issue. I have learned over time that just ignoring some people is the best way to deal with them. If they wish to allow me to live, rent free, in their heads, that is their problem and I refuse to allow it to become mine.
I am sick of the "War For Oil" mantra of the uninformed people who blame everything from gas prices to the lastest supernova on Bush. If this war is for oil, where is the OPEC glut that would flood the market to drop oil prices as it did in the 80s and again in the 90s? The Arabs may hate us, but they're aren't about to sacrafice their number one cash cow. They have, and never will stand by while we import our own oil from the Gulf. They want us to continue to feed in their pasture and will not allow us to simply build our own pasture(to those who don't understand analogies, "pasture" means "oil reserves"). Even a hint of self reliance where oil is concerned had caused gluts and drastic price cuts in the past. Well..There is always the possiblity of a secret undersea pipeline from Iraq to Crawford funded by the CIA and built by illegal immigrants from Mexico and India, but it too may have been damaged by well informed eco-terrorists or the president of ExxonMobil. OK..enough silliness..Now, in the face of high gas prices, lawmakers want to stop deposits of oil into the national strategic reserve. 70,000barrels a day to be diverted to the public. WOW! 70,000 barrels a day and that is said to be on the high side. That adds up to about 140,000 gallons of gasoline a day(since a barrel of oil nets about 19 gallons of gas)or about what Bakersfied and it's environs consumes in about a day. Even the folks pushing this legislation agree the effect on prices will be negligible in the mid term and non existent in the long. I say we won't see a penny in price change unless that change is still on the up side. This is obviously another short sighted ploy by politicians in a campaign year to show how in touch they are with the people, how they can feel our pain without actually having to feel it. How typically short sighted, how typically underthought, how typically self serving, how typically political. This isnt even a bad-aid. It's more like a dab of neosporin that will wipe off as soon as you put on your shirt. We don't need these pathetic political gestures by those who are trying to placate their constituencies with words rather than action, we need real solutions such as a truly focused national energy policy and we need to stop pretending that ethanol, hydrogen or hybrids are the answer to any of the problems our economy faces in these dire times of soaring fuel prices which affect everything we touch and see. Halting deposits to the national reserve will have no effect except to prove that we are desperate and have no plan of any sort to bring about real change. We need to stop pandering to special interst groups, namely the environmentalists, and begin the exploration, drilling, recovery and production of the vast resources on which America sits, increase our own refining capacity, begin large scale coal to oil production and set ourselves up for the next century as we continue to do the research into alternative fuels, but for now, we have to admit that oil is the energy strandard now and for many years to come. These actions would immediate and drastic effects on on the price of oil as OPEC is panicked into action by the realization that we were prepared to drop them as a supplier. It worked in the 80s and again in the 90s and it would work today. It's time for Americans to stand up to the envronmentalists and say "enough already". Let's utilize modern oil recovery technologies and do some real damage to OPEC instead of always allowing them to do thedamage to us. If only the environauts would allow themselves to understand the economy as well as they claim to understand the environment(something I have never been convinced of), maybe they too would get on board, but the government is so busy kissing their butts that that is unlikely to happen. Like it or not, oil is where we are and our dependence upon it is not going to go away anytime soon and the renewable energy folkls need to get a grip on this before it is too late. Our economy was never intended to deal with such high fuel costs and a crushed economy will be unable to fund the research needed to make real headway in the search for reliable reneweable energy. Sure, let's keep working on it, but in the meantime, let's be realistic and take action that will produce real results, and if you aren't willing to take that course then you have, in my opinion, no right to complain about the price of anything. I'm about two weeks behind on this due to simply having too little time to be online and I figured since the last post on this topic was May 6th, nobody would see my comment. This has to do with all the hoopla surrounding Ben Stein's film. I won't go see it, but that's only because I have a hard time paying nine skins to see ANYTHING! Just by the films premise I knew there would be a lot of backlash and hootin' and hollerin'. I still think it's funny when the anti-(insert your favorite hate)folks on the left throw such a fit about such things. In this case, a film that calls the right to debate where we came from into question. Now Ben Stein is a kook, a hack, an idiot, and his film is a "Documocumentary"(I always used the simpler "mocumentary" which "This is Spinal Tap" bestowed upon themselves, but I digress) using clips and snipets of dialogue taken out of context and only pieces of what people had to say to create the illusion that they agreed with the topic of the film or that some of the main targets in the film said something they really didn't say by stringing lines from differing times on differeing subjects together. Anyone remember Bowling For Columbine, Farenheit 911 or Sicko? These were NOT documentaries and Michael Moore himself made that clear. They were his production of how HE believed things were. But even that admission didn't stop the rank and file haters from touting those films as the greatest documentaries ever made, when in fact, those films used the very same tactics. Listen people. Maybe many of you need to go watch the History Channel or National Geographic Channel to get a feel for what a REAL documentary is. I'm not defending Stein's film because I have yet to see it, but I can't sit here and listen to the crowing of the films detractors who would, in another place, support the obvious self serving editing of a Michael Moore film simply because they shared his views and not due to facts in eveidence. I don't know why, but it still amazes me at how thoughtless, mean and immature so many liberals can be. I suppose I should be used to it, but I am not sure that one should ever get used to such things. I actually hope I never do. Naw, Hugo Chavez isn't interested in anything but coming to the rescue od and serving his fellow Venezuelans by making their lives easier and more comfortable. Oh, and trying to buy into a spy sattlelite company in 2006. I realize this may sound like old news, but it just recently came to light. Hmmm., I wonder why? It wasn't a communications company. The comany in which he attempted to invest operates a functioning observation sattlelite according to documents filed against his part in the scheme. The sattlelite was launched by Israel in 2006 and Hugo's attempted investment was kept in the dark through backdoor entities but was, nonetheless, found out by Israel, who squashed the deal. I guess I'm not the only one worried by this closet despot. Hey, I suppose any country should be allowed to have a spy sattlelite if they want one, but Hugo should see to the promises he made his countrymen about spending billions to bring that place out of the 18th century before he starts investing his country's cash in the espionage market. |