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nickdziegler - > Ruminations -> Urgent! Marriage under fire.
Urgent! Marriage under fire.

 It has been 162 days since May 16th, the day the California Supreme Court overturned the 1977 legislative decision and 2000's Proposition 22 which both defined marriage as being between one man and one woman (at any particular point in time, of course). The Supreme Court saw these measures as unconstitutional:

The state Constitution's guarantees of personal privacy and autonomy protect "the right of an individual to establish a legally recognized family with the person of one's choice," said Chief Justice Ronald George, who wrote the 121-page majority opinion. He said the Constitution "properly must be interpreted to guarantee this basic civil right to all Californians, whether gay or heterosexual, and to same-sex couples as well as opposite-sex couples." (http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?f=/c/a/2008/05/15/BAGAVNC5K.DTL)

Being a nation of laws, not of men, a group of Californios did the dignified thing: proposed a constitutional amendment.

Since that day, over 5 months ago, marriage in California has been under increasingly severe and disastrous fire. Talk to any member of any heterosexual union you know; even if they cannot explain why, they will not be able to deny that they can feel all the meaning in their marriages, and therefore their lives, slipping away through their once-ample hands. Long the sole bastion of hope for every individual everywhere in the world, the basic reproductive family unit is undergoing a hostile renovation, all thanks to the most egregious act of judicial despotism ever suffered in any of these United States.

For if your neighbor does not value reproductive success and global human monoculture, how will you be able to justify your own values? You will be adrift in a sea of not two, nay, but three or four incongruous identity types. You may have a two car garage, they a three; you, rose bushes, they, petunias. The good citizens of this great, perhaps greatest, state: how are they to live in such conditions? Are they to set out upon their own, defining their own values, perhaps even having to converse in a civil manner regarding legitimate differences in lifestyle and thought? Will you require they accept differences, the cruelest of all human follies?

Good citizens, I beg: do not eat of this forbidden fruit. The sole reason for uniting organs and fluids in holy matrimony is to bear children. It is for this reason we deny the institution of marriage to inter-species couples, and to infertile persons, and to any woman who has already reached the age of menopause. Furthermore, we do not let ugly people marry, nor fat people, nor people of mixed races. You see, these are all really gross and we don't want to see that.

It is time the white Christians and other marginalized groups in this nation stand up and be heard. It is time we end these attacks upon our very well-being. We have suffered indignity after indignity; we have tolerated vice after disgusting vice; and it is time we say no more. No more will we extend the common sensical legal protections we enjoy to groups that we find kind of icky. We feel this is OUR right.

We only pray that our marriages will last until November 4th.

Posted in the News interest group.
Topics: gay, marriage, heterosexual, homosexual, civil, Rights, prop, proposition, 8
posted by nickdziegler on Saturday, October 25, 2008 at 01:41 PM
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posted by sagefever on Oct 25, 2008 at 02:04 PM

Actually  we should blame King Henry the 8th~ before that divorce(the sacredness of marriage was solid~divorce only by Papal decree).Once he established the Church of England and got divorce by law/court,it was all over.P.S. This was a funny post !

 

posted by Wayfarer on Oct 25, 2008 at 02:16 PM

Sorry Sage you are in error.  In historical Orthodox Christianity all Bishops were equal in dignity.  Part of the Roman Catholic schism was the Pope of Rome who was a prisoner of the Western Emperor Charlemagne, for political purposes , the captive Pope claimed to be first among Bishops.  This led to the Western Church separating itself from the rest of the Orthodox Church.  Historically the power to grant a divorce rest on the governing local Bishop.  King Henry the 8Th while separating the Church of England from control of Rome made a further mistake when he made himself the head of the English Church.  In Orthodox Christianity the power of Church and State ideally have been separate.  The Emperor saw to the temporal good of the people and left the spiritual good to the appointed Patriarchs. 

posted by sagefever on Oct 25, 2008 at 02:24 PM

Not really error~just did not go back into history that far~ did those Bishops grant divorces? This is the kind of stuff I have begging you do put on your blogs Way. I really do not know all that much about the Orthodox Church,but have decided to study it for historical background~ on the net.

 

posted by nickdziegler on Oct 25, 2008 at 02:28 PM

Whoa, the Pope of Rome was not by that time theologically superior in rank to other bishops?  That goes against a lot that I've read/been told.

Also, I thought marriages could be annulled, but not divorced?

Granted, I'm not a scholar on this subject.

Thanks for commenting, by the way!

posted by Wayfarer on Oct 25, 2008 at 02:37 PM

Good for you Sage.  As I understand it divorce is allowed if there is infidelity in the marriage or by economia ( a Greek word meaning the rules can be bent, out of compassion) if the marriage is just insufferable with no hope of healing for both parties.  This is at the digression of the local Bishop.  Also a person out of economia can remarry ,but not more than 3 times.  That is were King Henry the 8Th really pushed it.  I am no expert of the Canon's or the guidelines of the Church though. If you want better advice I suggest asking Father Joseph the Local Orthodox Priest.  Check my profile for links to the local Parish website and the Archdiocese.  

posted by sagefever on Oct 25, 2008 at 02:38 PM

I could be wrong about that~ I think your right, "annulled" because of  "barren womb" and all that. Woe to the King who could not produce offspring. I wonder how many "baby's daddy's" were really from cousins instead of the King's "loins" ? It had to be the woman's fault,right !??! lol

 

posted by Wayfarer on Oct 25, 2008 at 02:42 PM

After 1054 the Roman Catholic officially separated itself from the Orthodox Church and the Pope of Rome assumed control over the rest of the Bishops of the Western Church.  The Orthodox Church has continued in the traditional collegial fashion with no Bishop having a greater voice than any other Bishop.  Annulment means the marriage never happened and that would depend if it was consummated.   

posted by Ray_Harwick on Oct 25, 2008 at 02:44 PM

I hate it when I agree with Wayfarer but once in a while he slips and displays some intellectual and (at long last) honest thoughts. Knock it off, Way! You'll ruin our relationship.

Nick!  Excellent article. Bravo!

posted by sagefever on Oct 25, 2008 at 02:56 PM

HM~ LOL Way can be a great friend,we agree rarely ,however he has always been fair to me.


posted by jaredkchapman on Oct 25, 2008 at 05:16 PM

Talk to any member of any heterosexual union you know 

I am straight and I could not disagree with you more. I know many others that are straight and think that the sanctity of marriage being attacked is just sheep's clothing hiding the real agenda of discriminating against a particular group, just because they might do things differently. Like many other straight people, I know that a vote against 8 is about protecting my children from other people's religious beliefs that differ from my beliefs. I know that a vote against 8 protects my children if one or more of them happen to be gay, which is biological and not a choice. I know a vote against 8 supports our government's establishment of checks and balances, where the judicial branch interprets the  constitutionality of laws. I know of vote against 8 continues anti-discriminatory laws that ensure that every US citizen has the same right to any governmentally sanctioned institution. I know a vote against 8 will break the separate but equalness of marriage vs. domestice partnerships or civil unions. Most of all, I know a vote against 8 is what patriotic Americans should do, putting country before anything else, and ensuring freedom for All.

posted by sfinboston52 on Oct 25, 2008 at 05:44 PM

LOL spread the fear! Wow...really gays getting married does not affect you, your christianity, your family, your church...it has nothing to do with you.

BTW

Elayne Boosler wrote the following artical:

Gay marriage has been legal in California since June of this year. That means we have already had the unfortunate benefit of experiencing its predicted erosion of the sanctity of real marriage. Make no mistake, it has wreaked havoc. Just knowing that gays are marrying has ruined my husband's ability to achieve an erection. Yes, this does date back to before June of this year, but since June of this year, it is all about that. And let me assure you, as he has assured me, this has nothing to do with my weight problem, or my refusal to let the devil into our bed by talking dirty, changing position, or moving.

Are gays shallow enough to think that just because they can get married, they will get married? They apparently do not understand the sanctity of begging, pleading, waiting, begging, pleading, threatening to tell his wife, attempting suicide, and finally getting pregnant to at last lead your mate toward that most hallowed and blessed ground, the Las Vegas wedding chapel. No, gay people, Elvis is not a Halloween costume. He is a legally licensed joiner of souls in the great state of Nevada. What can gays ever know about your family's joy in knowing that at last, yes, your children are going to have a father.

Marriage takes work and practice, and that is why gays will never get it right. How can they hope to compete with the knowledge earned by doing? With the expertise gained by Rush Limbaugh and his three sacred marriages? Newt Gingrich and his two sacred marriages? Ronald Reagan, John McCain, Prince Charles, Rudy Giuliani, all pillars of society and all married over and over to hone the sanctity and commitment necessary to maintain the bedrock of a society, marriage between a man and several women. Nowhere does the Bible say marriage is between a man and a man trapped in a woman's body. And as long as the President of the United States is sworn in with his hand on a Bible instead of on the Constitution, then we must make sure the Bible protects the Constitution. Besides, Billy Bob Thornton, Elizabeth Taylor, and Angelina Jolie took up sixteen marriages between them. We don't have any extra.

Gays getting married will also ruin our economy. You can be sure you will never see a persimmon colored cap-sleeved crepe bridesmaids dress at a gay wedding. An entire industry will be put out of business overnight.

Gay marriage will make a mockery of real marriage. Everybody knows gays are promiscuous, uncommitted, multiple-partner-having people. They are not like us. We believe that people should be married and settle down.

And lastly, and perhaps most destructive of all, gays being married will tacitly send the message that fellatio is an accepted part of marriage. What could be more ridiculous?

http://purl.org/dc/elements... style="display: none"> http://images.huffingtonpos...> Gay marriage has been legal in California since June of this year. That means we have already had the unfortunate benefit of experiencing its predicted erosion of the sanctity of real marriage. Make n... Gay marriage has been legal in California since June of this year. That means we have already had the unfortunate benefit of experiencing its predicted erosion of the sanctity of real marriage. Make n...
posted by nickdziegler on Oct 25, 2008 at 06:03 PM

Jared, I'm not sure if you were being ironic or not, but I just want to assure you that my article is.  I'm totally with you on the No on 8 thing.

posted by sagefever on Oct 25, 2008 at 06:24 PM

aw nick~ now the fun is over...but at this point it probably did need clarifying.

 

posted by gopherbro on Oct 25, 2008 at 07:10 PM

My favorite satirical song on the subject is a year old now, but it's still relevant. (Warning, political underwear exposed).

http://www.youtube.com/watc...

posted by senseiscott on Oct 25, 2008 at 11:35 PM

I am straight but could care less if gays want to marry each other. Who are any of you to judge. How does that affect your marraige? None. You just want to try and control others with your sorry ass views when you should keep them to yourself. The Mormons from Utah are the ones who started the prop 8 thing and pumped millions into it. I guess gays should do as they are told and I guess it is okay to have several wives as long they are of the opposite sex.  There are many bad and evil things to fight in this world. 2 people wanting to spend their life together is not one of them.  All of you haters get a life. Do you not have any useful purpose to your life other than to try amd make everyones elses miserable?

posted by teachercate65 on Oct 25, 2008 at 11:49 PM

White Christians?  Sorry if you are black, mexican, phillipino, etc and are a Christian - you don't count.

posted by nickdziegler on Oct 25, 2008 at 11:58 PM

The joke is that this is a movement that, from my own anecdotal experience at least, seems to be primarily perpetuated by white male Christians, i.e. the historically dominant group in this country.  So it's rather hilarious that they are claiming to be under attack.

The art of satire.

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