also still unfolding ,that at the least speaks to desperate women ,at the worst a monster, and somewhere in between a human in need of serious mental health intervention.

There are more splashed across our screens everyday ,we can turn on the T.V., open the paper ,sometimes just talk with our neighbors and families to hear more ,and unfortunately worse.

I mention these in the hope that the next time one is tempted to think ill of another because of religious ,political or personal reasons, one would stop. Think on these and realize truly that anyone who posts here is not the one to worry about~ with a few notable exceptions.I know there are warriors here who brook no fools,I am not speaking to you.For the rest of us,who are passionate,I speak to you, If you are tempted to call names I have some suggestions. First go out and volunteer a few hours to say Casa ,or an Ombudsman program ,or a youth at risk program or something that speaks to you. Then come back and I believe the urge to call names will be gone. If we can try to stay positive in our approaches with each other we can build a diverse on -line community .One in which we can all feel free to express our ideas, debate and exchange viewpoints.