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"Most people go through life dreading they'll have a traumatic experience. Freaks were born with their trauma. They've already passed their test in life. They're aristocrats." Diane Arbus

My life seems to operate sideways~ backwards almost~ and I have come to see thats right for me. A rain of snakes,disruption that cause's growth ,the world split in two.Everyone has there own path,mine has been one of thought,mostly of things folks today seem to disregard. Truth, personal integrity,politeness,...not all eschew these things.For me its been the easiest way to be~ any other way leads me to more trouble..and a sense of humor,above all about myself. Laughter keeps a person sane,and I enjoy seeing the coyote in myself~ the eternal trickster

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RIP~ G.L.Fortier

Not much else to say here~ except I am glad I mended my bridges. Glad I knew ya" and see you down the road. Forgot to add~ ~~~~

Semper Fi.

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posted by witterpitters on May 29, 2008 at 10:28 AM

Just figured out what this is about. I can relate. Just a couple of years ago (after a 30 year absence) I re-built a bridge in the same direction and  I know how I would feel - now. Condolences.

posted by sagefever on May 29, 2008 at 10:30 AM

Thanks witters.Best thing I could do and the hardest. 


posted by jfrancais on May 29, 2008 at 10:41 AM

I'm all about mending bridges. I just lost my father two weeks ago and I was able to establish some form of a relationship with him over the past few years and allow my kids get to know their grandpa.

posted by sagefever on May 29, 2008 at 10:47 AM

jfrancis~ I am so sorry for your loss,but really glad you had the opportunity to make things better.If I had not apologized to this person...it would be hard to live with,even though our "spat" was a two way street. I never heard back from him,so I can only hope he reached the same conclusion I did.

posted by michele1075 on May 29, 2008 at 10:52 AM

jfrancis-Im so sorry for your loss. I didn't realize that was your guys' father. 

sage-sorry for your loss as well.

posted by jfrancais on May 29, 2008 at 10:54 AM

As long as you are at peace with the actions you've taken to rectify the situation, Sage. You can only control what you say and do. Grudges are self-defeating. In my last conversation with my father, he thought I was angry with him and I cleared the air and let him know that I wasn't angry and in fact happy that life brought us back together.

posted by sagefever on May 29, 2008 at 11:01 AM

Thanks jfrancis~ you have always struck me as a very nice man.Your words continue to prove it .

Thank you michelle~

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