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Marriage Equality in CA
Been reading several articles via towleroad.com blog today and thought I would share some of the profiles and links. First couple to wed have been together for over 50 years!
At 5:01pm today, history will be made as gay and lesbian couples begin marrying in California, led symbolically by the marriage of Del Martin and Phyllis Lyon, the couple of 50 years who were first married in San Francisco City Hall in 2004 Profile of some of those on the front lines of marriage equality: Profiles of some of the key figures in the same-sex marriage struggle (both for and against) including Del Martin and Phyllis Lyon, Hillary and Julie Goodridge, Gavin Newsom, and Ronald George. Latest Poll: A new CBS poll shows reveals America's shifting views on same-sex marriage: "Twenty-eight percent think same-sex couples should be permitted to form civil unions, but more than a third - 36 percent - say there should be no legal recognition of a gay couple’s relationship. Last month, the California Supreme Court struck down that state’s ban on same-sex marriage, paving the way for gay and lesbian couples to marry there. Americans’ views on this issue have changed since 2004, although opinion has not changed substantially in the last two years. In November of 2004 (soon after the presidential election) just 21 percent of Americans supported the idea of same-sex couples being allowed to marry." Additional Information:
Thanks to Towleroad.com for providing links on this information. Hope this helps as people watch the wedding take place during the next few months.
12 comments from 6 users
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posted by
AudreyB
on Jun 16, 2008 at 07:52 AM
posted by
witterpitters
on Jun 16, 2008 at 08:01 AM
I agree Audrey :-) How many hetero marriages last that long in this day and age? I've been with 2nd hubby 37 years! We might make it to 50!!!! I don't care who marries who. If there is love, caring & mutual respect that is all that counts. posted by
AudreyB
on Jun 16, 2008 at 08:02 AM
posted by
siouxcityranch
on Jun 16, 2008 at 08:09 AM
Michael Kimmel, a Kensington psychotherapist who counsels gay couples, said the pressure to wed is prompting some couples to re-evaluate the strength of their relationships." A good example of be careful what you wish for..Are there any others out there reconsidering their relationships under the new ruling?? You dont have to answer..just think about it.. Kind of scary making a life long commitment isnt it.. posted by
ApolloDawn
on Jun 16, 2008 at 08:12 AM
Well put too, Witters. Some people associate marriage with a picture of opposite sexes raising, or planning to raise, a family. Other people believe that intimate love alone is the basis for marriage. I understand and respect the first view even as I believe in the second. But people in the first group will never succeed in brow-beating the second into seeing it as the first group does. People in the second group should expect almost as difficult a time changing the views of people in the first. The best chance for changing any minds is to show it's human side, and this picture does that well. posted by
siouxcityranch
on Jun 16, 2008 at 08:13 AM
Ive been with my one and only since she was 12 years old and I was 15..Im 54 now and dont plan on changing..Till death do us part as the promise goes.. posted by
sfinboston52
on Jun 16, 2008 at 08:21 AM
Sioux, I would assume it will be the same as here in MA. There were couples who once it became recognized, started looking at their relationship in more detail and eventually decided not to marry or remain together. I and my spouse have been together for 11 years, 4 of which are recognized by MA. posted by
AudreyB
on Jun 16, 2008 at 08:26 AM
Sioux Marriage ruins a lot of heterosexual relationships too. Marital commitment depends on the people involved, not their sexual orientation. posted by
siouxcityranch
on Jun 16, 2008 at 08:44 AM
Audrey my post had nothing to do with being gay or not..It had everything to do with finally getting something you felt was going to improve your lifestyle and when that GLORIOUS DAY finally arrives..you suddenly realize you quite possibly are having second thoughts..all the bull is gone..time for a commitment Hmmm...Woah this isnt fun anymore..Im outta here.. you have been so busy defending your rights you lost the intent of my post. Shake ur head Yes... posted by
sfinboston52
on Jun 16, 2008 at 09:35 AM
Sioux...I saw your intent and agree w/ you on living up the vows we take when we get married. I have seen way to many people Straight/Gay who have gotten married w/o taking it seriously. Marriage is not for only the goodtimes, the vows are there for the times when it is difficult. posted by
sagefever
on Jun 16, 2008 at 10:45 AM
"Good times and bad"...so true yet some bad times can not be worked through~ while others can. Congratulations to those about to take the big step and much good luck! posted by
sfinboston52
on Jun 16, 2008 at 10:54 AM
I agree Sage, there are times to just hang it up and move on. I try never to judge any other couple's success or failure, since they are the only ones who really know what is going on in their relationship. My spouse & I knew a married couple who were friends of his father and Step mother. We thought the couple was great and had it all together and were deeply in love. It was very much a shock, when they divorced and the true story of cheating, fighting both w/ words & fist made up the majority of their relationship. So no one know what really is going on between any couple.
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