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Potty training from birth
Have any of you heard of this? What do you think about it?
http://abcnews.go.com/US/Li...
This article in a magazine also says, After you have had a new baby, probably the last thing you are thinking of is potty training your child. It seems so very far away... this tiny, helpless baby won’t even be sitting up for months to come! Yet it is here, in the child’s first few months of life that the mother is most attentive to the child’s needs and signals. Most mothers know when their child is hungry, tired or uncomfortable and needs a diaper change. As the infant grows to become more and more independent we western mothers with our busy lifestyles tend to become less and less in tune with our child’s signals. In many parts of the world diapers (especially disposable!) are not used. In some countries, children are toilet trained at very early stages of life, beginning in infancy. Of course the mother’s lifestyle is very different than ours, as is our culture in general. You must be dedicated to the method and ready for the challenge. The ultimate goal is to teach the infant to eliminate in an acceptable container or toilet and to communicate to you his need to go in advance. It essential to maintain a matter-of-fact attitude and to consider toilet accidents just like you might a child who falls when learning to walk. Dedication. There must be at least one adult dedicated to the task on a full-time basis. Results may not be as beneficial if done part-time. Consistency is very important. Begin Early. Start before six months, if possible. Using a container, such as a mixing bowl, keep child diaperless during and just after feeding. Learn the child’s elimination timing and signals the child will make just before. Learn Your Child’s Signals, Teach Him Yours. As your child grows and you learn the signals the child uses just before going pee or poop, you should have enough advance notice to get the child to the toilet place. In some cultures the mother may teach the child a new signal like “psss psss” while the child is urinating. Remember, the child is still very young - many children in other countries are trained by 1 1/2 years old. Mothers are very diligent. Visit Toilet Place Often. When the child is able to sit up, begin putting child on potty or toilet (smaller adaptive toilet seat will be needed) at regular times when you anticipate the child is ready to eliminate. You can also use a sink or bathtub and support child’s upper legs while he eliminates. As you can see, you will spend a lot of time working on this, but it can be very rewarding and lead to increased bonding with your child. Some claim potty training is completed as early as 20 months. Accidents. It is up to the mother and other family members to anticipate the child’s toilet needs and prevent accidents. In doing this the child clearly understands by social actions what is expected and, just like learning to feed himself, how to toilet properly. While disapproval and concern are demonstrated when accidents occur, children are not punished, hit or blamed. Diapers. If you think this method may be for you, avoid getting your child used to using a disposable diaper to eliminate. Just as a child is capable of learning to use the toilet, he is capable of learning to use a diaper to eliminate. Cloth diapers, training pants or underwear are better than disposable diapers if you choose to use this method and need to go out. Expect accidents while the child learns. Educate the Child. Teach the child your family’s toileting words along with other basic common words when you communicate. As the child becomes more aware, continuously discuss what is acceptable and what is not - in a non-threatening, matter of fact way when using toilet or cleaning up accidents. Punishment is not necessary, however communication of what is acceptable and what is not - is essential. Your Pediatrician Can Help With Potty Training. If any concerns come up before, during, or after toilet training, talk with your pediatrician. Often the problem or problems are minor and can be resolved quickly, but sometimes physical or emotional causes will require treatment. Your pediatrician's help, advice, and encouragement can help make toilet training easier. Also, your pediatrician is trained to identify and manage problems that are more serious. Confirm Potty Training Information With Other Sources and Your Doctor. You are encouraged to talk with your doctor with regard to information contained on or through this Web site. After reading articles or other Content from Potty Training Solutions, you are encouraged to review the information with your professional healthcare provider. 5 comments from 4 users
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posted by
sagefever
on Aug 28, 2007 at 12:50 PM
posted by
Janigirl
on Aug 28, 2007 at 09:01 PM
I also believe these parents are training themselves to take their children to the potty. It's my opinion, at 3-6 months of age, the child is too young to comprehend what is going on. My children were potty trained (with no accidents) before they turned 2 years old. I was a stay at home mom and I didn't run for 18 months taking them back and forth. At the age I thought appropriate ( when my daughter could comprehend), I started to potty train her. She was 20 months, within a week or two she was trained with no accidents. My sons I started at about 22 months. I waited until I felt they were ready. I always hear people say oh my son was so hard, boys are harder to potty train, etc. Almost 2 years, I was going to help potty train my grandson. My sister and I cared for him during the day. I took him a couple of days in a row and he seemed to be doing really good. When his older sister who was 12 heard, I guess she wanted to try it. The next time he came over he was scared to death of the toilet. Personally I think he may have fell in or something scary happened because his attitude was different. So I backed off. We waited a couple of months and then everything was fine. He pretty much trained himself. He was just over 2. It takes all the things the book says dedication and consistency are of utmost importance. It also takes common sense. posted by
tchudilowsky
on Aug 29, 2007 at 10:39 AM
posted by
sagefever
on Aug 29, 2007 at 11:54 AM
posted by
Mom2CandC
on Aug 30, 2007 at 03:22 PM
I think that each child is different. It also depends on the dedication of the parent or care provider of the child. Either way, developing the communication for the child to recognize their need to use the toilet, making them feel safe while using the toilet, and then praising their success each and every time. I have two boys and they are as different as night and day....both pretty stubborn - and independent. My oldest was trained totally just shortly after the age of 2 years. My youngest, way more talkative, but not the least bit interested in using the toilet.....refused to use it each time I suggested it. Finally, as my oldest began prepping for Kindergarten at the end of this summer, the youngest decided - he was ready for toilet time....all it took was one time of no poo on the rearend....he was sold from then on! It's a great day!!! I have met kids that are as young as 1 1/2 years that are ready...it all depends on the kids.
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